When I was a kid, I used to tackle and fight back. As I got older I started to get passive, too nice and pushed around. My family knows how nice I am and a couple has taken advantage of me. My older half siblings and my late father didn't like that I was passive aggressive, agreeable and let people push me around. My older sister said the problem with me is that I let people run me over and I don’t say anything and I have no respect for my and that’s frankly pitiful for my age. My dad got in my face and called me weak because I let my two older male cousins treat me like crap. He said so many hurtful things that damage my self esteem but I never confronted him for it and he said why didn’t I stand up to him? He said, “Why do you let them guys talk to you that way. Stop being so damn weak! It’s bad enough having another daughter that has no respect for herself and has no mind of her own. You’re weak. At least I have two kids that are strong willed and outspoken and aren’t afraid to stand up for themselves.
That always made me feel bad. My family ever believes me I’ll fight back because I’m “too nice”.
I’ve had relationship disrespected me and yell at my face for not meeting up their expectations. Why do they do this to me. Plus I’m special needs.
One of my aunts charged me for the honey she bought for me. She said she bought some for me but she will be charging me for it since she bought it for me. I never asked for it so I didn’t think it was fair that she charged me money but I stupidly gave her $12.
My friends know about all this and are annoyed with me for not having a backbone and being agreeable. It’s annoying. People feel bad for a child that is a people pleaser but why are they hard on the adult?
