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Cheating is already awful but to then do the nasty deed in your partner's house (not even nor own house at least) has got to be one of the worst insults ever.

This happened to a good friend of mine. Her ex boyfriend (then boyfriend) had the nerve to bring the other woman to her house, do the nasty deed on her own couch, heads towards the bathroom with her to take a shower, eat some of her food from the fridge and used her wine bottle.

Even though she didn't walk in on them (she was working), she installed a hidden camera because his behavior changed. The next week, she viewed her camera and dumped him immediately. To her that was even worse than walking in on them cheating.

Obviously both ways are horrible ways to discover you've been cheated on but which would be worse to you?

- The old classical way of coming early from work or whatever reason and walking in on them cheating.

- Reviewing your installed camera the next day or week later and seeing what happened while you were gone.

I recently went to download festival this Friday with my friend, I have a partner and he was completely fine with it, unfortunately he doesn't like festivals or I would've loved for him to come.

I kept him updated, drank a bit but safely, lathered up in suncream and had a great time.

However, I know some people that are really controlling, and their partner would never let them do this. In my opinion, if you're afraid it would be a way for them to cheat then 1. You already have an issue with trust in your partnership, and 2. a bad person is going to end up doing a bad thing no matter how much you control them.

In my opnion I wouldn't date someone that tells me if I can go to a concert or festival or not.