Have you ever tried to ruined a ex partner new relationship if so how and why?

[Anonymous]

So my ex girlfriend of 8 years left me on my birthday because I didn’t want a shot gun wedding and told her I want to talk about it first in person. I was very upset about this as I had brought her a ring and had planned to pop the question in person which I did we made out she seemed confused.. she kept cheating on the new guy with me the whole time she was with him. So the day before the wedding I sent her all her stuff back but send her a long message saying to bring it all to our wedding which she didn’t read and had thought I was done with her so she didn’t show up since she was upset.

She ended up ghosting me 2 weeks later promise to pay me back half the money for the wedding but never did. I got super annoyed with being lead on so I sent the new guy all the text messages our marriage license and our sex tapes we made while she was with him. I have zero idea if she still with him or not but if she is tm makes 3 months since she’s been with him and she cheated on him the first 2 n half months.

Have you ever done anything like this to a ex partner? The guy was also unaware we had a child

[DizzyDesii]

Constantly reminding me why its a great idea to never make a sex tape... anyways, I would not go out of my way to ruin someones future. But their new girl better not come ask me how things went because I will surely tell them every detail down to the nitty gritty. I owe them NOTHING.

[Asker]

100% true and we made the sex tape while she with him I don't know how you would feel to learn someone you were with was cheating on you and almost got married behind your avckn

[DizzyDesii]

Dang so y'all both are bad for that

[Asker]

Yea pretty much but idc about the other guys feelings

[DizzyDesii]

I wouldn't care about the other persons feelings but i’d be disappointed in myself and question my morals

[Asker]

Makes sense my ex really doesn’t care she hurt me or the nee guy she’s cold. I just disappointed in myself for letting it come this far

[kylee2437]

No because often times new women in a man’s life are too infatuated with him to listen to the truths of women that were in his life in the past.

[Asker]

Same with me believe it or not

[kylee2437]

Yeah a lot of people use infatuation as a distraction from the damage that person may have done to another persons life. Just look at it as, how they get them is how they will lose them.

[Asker]

That would be interesting to see him leave her for another girl on her birthday.

[kylee2437]

Or better yet she will do something similar to him once the relationship is no longer exciting

[Asker]

She already cheated on him with me twice and even almost married me 3 weeks ago but yea she 100% could if he ducks up or doesn’t marry her fast

[LiamJHayden]

No. I would want her to move on and be happy.

[Asker]

You a good guy I wanted that at first till she kept fucking me ofer

[In_Trance]

nope