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So me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year officially but we’ve known eachother for 3 years. There’s a couple things that still come back to me that I forgave him about & I’ve noticed some good changes in him after several conversations trying to work things out & I appreciate it but there’s still things I know he does that he thinks I don’t know that make me upset. The thing is I have brought it up to him many times & at this point I’m just giving up my energy I give ti him. He’s noticed I’ve been a little distant. I’m older than him by 3 years it’s not much but he’s 25. He’s been sweet but there things that still bother me that he does that he knows because I’m a straight up person & have let him know. But men just don’t comprehend a lot oh things. My question is why do I feel unhappy even when he tries to work on something’s? Sometimes I do want to breakup with him & I’ve tried but he still comes back & begs me to not let this go. I don't know if I’m the problem or if what I’m feeling is a sign ti break things off.

I’ve noticed tyst if you aren’t saying you just want sex or you want to be in a relationship, there’s a lot of sleig View like it’s a game or something. in my opinion if you say you want to get to know someone— it’s the most honest way of communicating.

Unless you really are just looking for sex, how does anyone know if they want to date a person let alone be in a relationship with them if they do 🤷🏻‍♀️ if you still feel the need to get better acquainted I don’t see the problem.

It is funny how propaganda works bc I know when people say this to me I can still hear it as a euphemism for sex BUT only bc people will use it that way & not bc I think there’s anything inherently wrong with _really_ just wanting to get to know someone.

I’m never on the hunt for a boyfriend so if I meet someone I want to get to know better that’s all I know I can honestly say. And I think that should be good.

people don’t take it well it’s as if I’m letting them down easy or being deceptive.

Seriously what more can you ask of a person lol “ I’m interested in getting to know you better.” I think this is much better than jumping into boxes just bc for no particular reason..

Of course if someone knows they want to date then go for it— It’s just not my approach and I find it funny wanting to get to know someone is Suspect 😂