My Boyfriend is Careless?

[Anonymous]

I feel my boyfriend is careless.
We met online a year ago, we met up after about 1 weeks talking online. We live in the different city, so he always drive hours to see me. He was so nice, and good looking and tbh good at financial.

But few months ago he had big problem in his business, so after that he keep busy. Like always work overtime and didn’t even text me in a day.

I was thinking he changed and I don’t want to take him seriously so I won’t hurt myself or something like that, but one day he told to me that he feel like i am so mysterious and he feel like i am just consider him as fuck friend coz I don’t even he follow me on Instagram, and he said he love he and he was crying.

But again…
He still keeps careless, even can stand without texting me over than 24hours. Sometimes don’t even reply my good night texts. But he always so nice when we are together, even sometimes mentioned about marriage.

Ans yesterday he just texted me once and when I replied have a nice work he didn’t even text me back. I was thinking he was busy but i saw his instagram yesterday, he is in the bar. So i am confused now. What should i do?

[_Maya_]

What? I'm so confused. Why is he careless. Absolutely nothing you just said has anything to do with being careless unless your definition is different than mine.

care·less
/ˈkerləs/

adjective
not giving sufficient attention or thought to avoiding harm or errors.
"she had been careless and had left the window unlocked"

(of an action or its result) showing or caused by a lack of attention.
"he admitted to careless driving"
not concerned or worried about.
"he was careless about his own safety"

Do you mean as in you don't think he cares for you? That's really not the same thing as someone being careless.

[tfan1]

Find someone that will respect you. 👍🙂

[In_Trance]

You live with it or you move on

[Asker]

I tried, but his business is down. Like i met him when he was good, and financial stable. And now he is down, but also changed him. He once told me that he feels so guilty that he ignores me, but it’s just too much on his plate. But yesterday i saw his story on the belly dancer bar. He often takes me there or just to meet business partner. So i am confused now.

[In_Trance]

You've posted this before.
Stop talking about it and make a decision

[Anonymous]

I believe you truly deserve better boyfriend