My boyfriend panicked and accused me of stealing?

[Melowooky]

He couldnt find his 2nd phone at his house

Started sending me messages that i stole it

I said no way, i would never do that

This morning he sent me message

Saying he very sorry, he found it he just panicked alittle.

I called him and asked again wtf he thought that about me and his argument is the same :you are the only one staying at my house

How can you panick to the point of accusing your girlfriend of stealing

He said he has lots of personal problems now (no idea what those are since i know him and i see no posible problem that would make you panic and accuse of this shit your girl)

What I have to do with it?

[Billlewis]

I think you should have a talk with him about this, and ask him if he's going to make it an ongoing occurrence.

[Melowooky]

He said we will meet next week
Should i insist?
Im waiting when he tells me to meet
But he has been paranoid
He doesn't want me to step his house
He doesn't want to have my parfume and champu at his house
He is sick in the head lately and i dont understand whats goin on

[Melowooky]

I can't have a talk because he refuses to meet
He refuses to talk to me
Yesterday he hung up on me

[Billlewis]

How long have you been seeing him, and are you reasonably happy with him, apart from this?

[Billlewis]

If someone did that to me, and then hung up on me when I called them , that might be the end of it.

[Melowooky]

2.5 years
And yes super happy except for his paranoai episodes which are surreal and hurtful
Maybe its drug?
I see no reason for him to behave like that out of nothing
He said he has lots of personal problems now that has nothing to do with me
So he gets angry with me for something i didn't do
Why? makes 0 sense

[Melowooky]

I know... he never does this
I know something is not right in him but i dont know what
He never did that before

[Magnoliaamaryllis]

It is no way to accuse girlfriend. I think that you should break up with him. He should see his fault. He had to trust you

[slatyb]

That's totally weird, pretty much a deal-breaker. He needs to get his head straight before he dates anyone.

[spartan55]

Man, I would be pissed if I were you. Tell the dumbass to not lose his property.

[spartan55]

I read some of these other comments. Are you sure he isn't on drugs?

[Melowooky]

I start to suspect he is
There is no logical explanation for him to panick o be That paranoid

[spartan55]

Common side effect from meth use.

[Melowooky]

No idea... im so tired
Its everyday nonsense
Today he put tempo messages on whats with me
And thinks his boss is spying on him through his phone

[spartan55]

Meth. What kind of hours is he keeping? Does he seem to be up all the time?

[Melowooky]

I dont live with him
He takes sleeping pills yes

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

He doesn't sound normal to me? Does he do some drugs or did his ex used to steal from him? How he got that idea 💡💡 that's more important question

[Melowooky]

As i know yes she stole from him
But im not that kind of person that wild
I was shocked i have to explaine myself
I dont know about drugs but his actions a re normal at all
Im concerned
He said he has some personal problems, didn't tell me which ones... generally he always tells me everything
He acts like nothing special happened
But i have trust issues now becaue of him
What if he can't find smth in his house now he will always blame me for it
He looks like he has huge paranoia or some kind of mental break down, i have no idea whats wrong.
He thinks his phone is hacked... that people listen to him
That police could listen to him
That he has chinese or russian words floating on his phone
I didn't even know what to say to that

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

I think his ex scar him psychological. try to communicate with him once
He needs therapy
(If he is a normal guy) or he might be hiding some crime (if he is shady) i don't know him to figure out that part..
My advice is to try to talk with him and figure it out.. if he doesn't explain or clarify then he might be hiding something please stay away he might be criminal or involved in shady things

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Russian is a buzz word for me n Chinese tapping his phone u know based on what i read he sounds scary

[Melowooky]

I am scared
He said like 5 time he doesn't want me to enter his house
Today he says we meet this week

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

To be honest from what I heard yes it's scary