I have been officially dating this guy and everything was great. We even said I love you and I couldn’t see how I could have a better boyfriend. Some odd stuff popped up though where we hadn’t known each other long before we got together. I did catch him hitting on my girl he didn’t know about and fully confronted him. He said he was playing it safe bc I was still having conversations with men who disrespected our relationship in terms of saying they still wanted to fuck me even after telling them I was dating someone. I understood but also never tried to say I wanted friends with benefits with them or get them to come to my house.
We moved on from that but there was another problem in this contact of “My Queen ❤️🔐” coming up. One night she called him 15 times bc he wouldn’t answer. He said he blocked her on everything after that but I saw a page of text messages when I glanced at him using his phone the other day between them. I told him I’d rather just know the truth. That I can backup an have a casual phase or if there’s a side chick or I’m the side chick just tell me. I’m kind of bi/swinger so it’s not that I care about some things I just hate being left like someone is hiding. I know I’ve done stuff too though because I sent our sex tape to one of the guys who was still trying to hookup with me so I’m not saying I’m perfect an he screwed up. It’s the name that bothers me why my queen? Even if I screw up I don’t have my old f boys in there as bae or my king
He insists there’s nothing going on an no one else in the picture. That he wants me in his life forever. He said if I want to I can go through his phone an he’ll put me in his Instagram bio whatever I need to show he’s serious. I don’t know but I just constantly feel like he’s cheating on me. I wouldn’t even mind opening the relationship but he insists he wants to be monogamous. What should I do
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It doesn't sound like this is going to work out long term- there isn't enough trust
This is hard cause it sounds like he wants to but he just wants you to be only for him!
Honestly his queen might have even ordered him to do all this to get a girlfriend for her! So she can cause drama!
Don't cheapen yourself and allow this to be an open thing! So many girls do that and then it never ends well 😭. Usually aids or STDs at the best
Your amazing and it sounds like you need to work and take time building trust or let this just end which I know you don't want to do!
Maybe test him? Be a tease suggesting you want a 3rd in the bedroom and queeny sounds perfect!
My friend did this and he just came out happy cause his mistress ordered him to find them a girlfriend so she could have a 3some and cause drama to end it.
Was not the first time for them doing it and that was a yesr of my friend skife wasted in him!