He starts to become stressed and paranoid about non existant problems or things that can be easily solved. But to the point of blaming me that i can't help him (i do offer help but he always refuses it or doesn't acnowledges it)
He had some tax issues in June (solved) now all of a sudden he texts me: i have lots of troubles i have this letter and i owe taxes.
Im like:we talked about it... in June. its all good.
Tax is only one example he already had like 3 episodes when he brings up not important stuff or even already solved stuff, stresses about it and gets paranoid.
Then he has huge obsession with his phone, he constantly thinks someone is spying on him etc (blame me for hacking or stealing his sim and phone🤣)
I dont know what kind of mental break down is this since it last for a monch now! Need psychology explanation to why he creates problems where there is none or why he brings up old stuff and presents it as a problem when it really isn't.
All this after i came visit him and brought him food And he even asked me to spend a weekend together
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He could have some type of ocd or something. He also could have started using drugs or something else that can fuck with your brain. He also just might not pay attention when you talk about things like taxes in June, so then he brings it up later.
It makes no sense at all
Its literally mental
He is like i can't see your call on whatsapp
Im like i called you on the phone
He is like what are you talking about. Dont play with me
And hung on me...
Drugs can explain that no? You sure he isn't using?
Then he installed an app to have different pics on his phone
Now he is paranoid is hacking his phone
I say: uninstall it if you think its dangerous
He says :noooo i will lose my backgrounds
Im like:dude download it from google...
He is like :im not downloading anything it can hack my phone
Other issues like different adress on his work contract which in this particular case doesn't impact at All
Well... he started saying that in case he will get fired he won't be able to get any money...
Im like : what your adress has to do with this.
Wow he said he will sue the boss!! he will go to prison if necessary but he won't let anyone treat him as an idiot
I was in ave... i didn't know what to say
No idea, how can i know? or see in him?
He seems normal to me
I mean he was kinda hot temper always
But I've never seen him get THIS paranoid
Over such simple , stupid and easily solved things
People on drugs can become very paranoid and delusional. I really wouldn't be surprised if he started using. To find out won't be the easiest but maybe look for needle marks on his arms, search his bag when he isn't around. You could check his phone as well if he isn't around see if he makes contact with someone to purchase drugs. Dilated pupils or blood shot eyes can also be signs.
He smokes pot
Can be that?
I mean pot relaxes him actually
So i dont get it
Also how can i answer him?
But am i being crazy or this behaviour really is not normal?
I really start to question myself
Maybe its me?
Sometimes i feel like talking to mentally sick person
Pot can cause paranoia, but if he didn't start it recently id say its probably something more hard core. And no he sounds like a lunatic you aren't crazy.
Is he on drugs?
I dont know