Search Results: distant

Should I ask my ex if he still loves me? What do I do?

My ex and Ibroke up about 2.5 years ago after a year-long relationship. Since then he's initiated sporadic contact, often when drinking, expressing affection but being distant when sober. Recently, he reached out with...

Lissyyluu33

Xper 3 Age: 33

Is this normal or not right?

there's a guy im gonna go on a 3rd date with and he’s been avoiding me, distant, and controlling saying it’s going to be here at this time and this day. He called me early in the morning around 5 am today. And he was...

MailyMartinez

Xper 3 Age: 22

Why does my boyfriend expect me to break up with him while I told him he can if he wants to?

So my boyfriend of 2 years hasn't been telling me nice things emotionally for a while. He was using medicine because he was depressed and I was trying my best to support him. His libido decreased a few days ago and he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he being cold and distant with me?

Before I go into my story - please don’t give me any abuse. I am aware that what I did was wrong. Me and this guy work together and we both have romantic partners. We’ve worked together for over two years and we have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is he being cold/distant?

Anonymous

(30-35)

A guy I kissed is now being distant?

Me and my colleague are quite close and have a flirty relationship. I would have confidently said he was into me and I have a huge crush on him. On Saturday night, I was out with my friends and he came out to meet me,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My colleague is acting odd around me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I being selfish?

Recently my boyfriend has been very distant lately and off, I haven't been getting a lot of intimate stuff either I understand when guys get stressed they back off certain things but since I see that I've been trying to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it normal for guys to become distant once they get a girlfriend?

I don't mean becoming distant over time or slowly hanging out less and less. My friend went on a weekend trip with his girlfriend of one month and when he came back, he didn't want anything to do with some of us. Like...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are these signs of interest from a man or just a desire to be understood?

If a man that you knew in real life keeps answering your questions about himself and opening up and stands up for you with trolls, but acts distant besides on gag? Tells mutual mates that you don’t see eye to eye? I have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend is distant but ask still talks to me. Should I give him space or what do I need to do?

My boyfriend has been distant lately. I try to ask what’s wrong, but he won’t really open up to me. Usually if it’s a problem between us though he will address it directly. We then both had a bad day. He was put on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do you guys think could have possibly went wrong?

Things were going good between me and a guy I work with. We were both interested in each other, I made the first move but he was accepting. I made the move he was showing that he was interested in me. I wasn’t pushy. We...

Egyptiannn

Xper 4 Age: 30

How do I stop being anxious-attached in love relationships and distant-avoidant in social and work relationships?

Anonymous

(25-29)

What should I do?

Guys, I’ve been through a really long path love wise. I had my first boyfriend when I was 15.. he passed away in a car accident when I turned 17. I was devastated.. years later I got in a relationship with another guy. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he shy or unsure?

If there is a rumor circulating that a guy has feelings for a girl, but she never directly asks him about it, what could be the reasons for his decision to not reveal his feelings and instead continue to act cold and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would it be weird to send a second friend request to someone? (read below)?

Back in October I send a follow request to a guy I had gotten to know somewhere around August, but he didn't accept at the time. I didn't know about his online activity so I'm not sure if he ignored or was oblivious but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My guy friend wants to hang out even though he has a girlfriend (pt 2)?

Original I saw him today, the first time since he said he wanted to hang out and he was so distant and kinda short. He went with his girlfriend to NY and came back different. Almost depressed and withdrawn. He barley...

roxystars19

Xper 6 Age: 27

What’s his problem and why he’s acting like this?

There was this guy whom I first saw at my job. When I first met him, he snatched something from me. Then, he started staring at me. Months later, we ended up going to the same school. He was always rude, cold, and distant...

Anonymous

(25-29)