Sounds like this isn’t geared towards you specifically but the group or friends as well, to which I’d say this just happens for some people when they get into serious relationships.
It’s a sucky adjustment when you’re used to things being a certain way previously, but if that’s the way he is as a boyfriend and mainly gives his partner his time, then it’s just something to accept. Of course you can have a conversation with him about it, but in most cases he won’t see a problem and/or won’t accommodate your complaints going forward.
If he is becoming wholly consumed with his relationship, all you can do is wish him well and focus on your other friends, then decide whether or not you want to accept him back should the relationship not work out.
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my best guess without any further information is that his girlfriend doesn't like you and told him to stay away from you which is why he's acting distant. OR it could be something completely different and he's depressed
It would be your right to ask why the change. You may not like the answer! They probably consummated their relationship if not before. While on vacation. Now he feels that it isn’t right to carry on a friendship with another woman while in a romantic relationship with a girl friend!
Nothing wrong with noticing change. However, proceed with caution when asking him what you notice. Make it brief. NO ASSUMPTIONS, NO BLAMING, NO I THINK SPEECH, NO I WISH. keep it factual. And make sure it's from concern not from imbalance emotions or feelings on your end.
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Ask him my guess would be for some reason or not the friendship was putting a strain on the relationship and he adjusted things because of it
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