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I can't never be like my ex boyfriend or other users. They spent a lot of energy and time to exploit others and can sleep good without any guilt at all.

Then here is me:

I can't think of ever doing this to anyone. Even if I found $10,000 or more on the ground I imagine the person crying for their lost money and desperately try to find the person. I don't like holding something that's not mine, that I didn't work to earn it. What I'm about to say might sound naive and probably stupid but I don't have the guts or personality to be a user or golddigger, never did.

To be a user or golddigger do you really have to have a twisted mind, a personality disoder? The moment I were to start lying to someone, I imagine too much overwhelming guilt that I would stop and wouldn't be able to complete it. I can't ever be like them.

So, recently we found out that my boyfriend of 9 months 17 year old sister is pregnant, about four months along.

We were all supportive, the father-to-be has already stepped up and is prepared to support her and the baby.

However, that's not the issue, the issue is I found out my boyfriend knew since she found out, but didn't tell me.

He said she told him not to tell anyone, and I told him that doesn't include me, we're supposed to tell each other EVERYTHING, and he disagreed - he says if someone asks you to keep something to yourself, that means exactly that.

We've had massive fights over this the last few days, and he won't budge, I keep reminding him how partners are supposed to share everything, and asking what else he's been hiding, and he just keeps reiterating how he respected her wish to keep it secret until she's ready to tell everyone.

Am I right?