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I’m the last young child left in family. All my step siblings are older than me and brothers wife’s 4 sisters all are married now. The youngest sister 28 got proposed to this week. I’m not 28 yet but I worry by that age I won’t be married at all. I feel it’s not in my destiny to be married never. I feel like a loser as everyone in family is stuck up now rich perfect life with husband and im loser little girl. That show I feel. I have a boyfriend & live alone in an apartment. But to me she 25 is like a grown women I want be proposed to start living with a guy now fast. I use a horoscope app and they have said since last years it was seen 2023 I’ll be pregnant. So I’ll just have baby not married (yet)? I know many girls marry til after they have baby. I don't know y god want everything backwards for me and he choose only them be happy and he wants me unhappy in life. I feel lonely I’m a black sheep I can’t show off to anyone my beaitful apartment & how happy I am with boyfriend, they only care of their life. To the point I’m ignored and they only talk of their life so I’m distant from all of them forevever. And try live my own life alone with boyfriend. 😞 I did marry when I was young but it was a guy that used me & since he was tall & I was extremely short had baby face, he treated me like I’m a stupid little girl & not an adult women. I’m divorced soon this year, still with same boyfriend. But boyfriend and I are short so he treat me like a women never is judging me. And that guy is now with a. Super tall women like him. So for sure that guy wasn’t for me and boyfriend maybe is for me.

I know this is not how the law works, but for this fun activity let's pretend it is.

Ok, so this was a fun activity we once did in my psychology class.

You play a detective. A woman (ms. A) walks in and tells you, that a person (mr. B) Has been harrassing them by text message and would like to file a restraining order. You decide if the restraining order is accurate or not.

Ms. A: shows evidence of over 200 hundred messages complaining about her actions, and even after over 10 times of Ms. A asking Mr. B to stop harrassing and contacting her, he does not stop messaging her and spins it as having a discussion.

Mr. B. Suspecting you are investigating him for harrassment comes to you. Tries to spin the story that it was 2 friends having a disagreement. He goes on a very long winded overly detailed information about what happened. And it does not seem the same as what evidence you saw.

You make your decision to send the restraining order to the judge.(yes i know this isn't how the law works, but for this exercise it does)

MR. B: disappointed in the decision and has your number sends you over 125 messages telling you that you are wrong, and then when you say you are not changing your decision. Sends 75 messages trying to convince you that you are hurting his wife, and making her sick. You then say. "I believe in my heart i am right. Could I be wrong? Possibly. But to much evidence proves you to be guilty. So in my heart i believe you are guilty and will continue."

MS. A. Tells you she is still a victim as they wait for the court hearing. She sends you 75 of the 200 messages. Where he blames her for the detective's choice. Mr. B then accuses you the detective of being one sided and only listening to her. Then you see Mr. B has now lied about what you said. He took your words and twisted them. He claimed you said. "I am most likely wrong, and don't care that I'm wrong, and I am choosing to side with Ms. A"

Take your time. You can leave an opinion stating:

1. Left

2. Right etc.

And explain why you choose it, do they seem like they're nicer, stronger, more attractive. Or just vote for which side has more points.

I know that 99% of us don't see the difference and don't care, but there is a huge difference that most people didn't believe me before until I showed proof. And I will tell what it is later, but first I want to know the results.

By "show more skin" I mean stuff like tank tops and short shorts, and by "cover up more" I mean stuff like long sleeves and long pants/jeans. As you can see in the attached photos.

I don't know why, but to me it just seems like women who show more skin are often more warm/friendly than women who cover up more. I often associate the former with smiling more often, generally hugging more and being more touchy feely, and displaying overall more extroverted and outgoing traits... and the latter more with smiling less, disliking hugs and physical contact, and displaying overall more introverted and reserved traits.

Another thing, women who show skin seem to not care when another woman decides to cover up... at most they'll ask them "aren't you feeling hot" if the temperature is high, but they'll leave it at that. However, women who cover up often seem to be quite judgmental of women who show more skin, and seem to think that they are morally superior to them. They seem to think women who show more skin are "dressing wrong" or "being slutty."

I'm not sure if this is just me/a coincidence, or if it's actually a common pattern that exists in a lot of places. Which is why I'm asking.

If it matters, I myself would usually dress something in-between the two photos. Like a t-shirt and shorts that are closer to knee-length. Though I occasionally may adopt the style shown in the photos as well, depending on the weather.