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As mentioned, this man is a friend with benefit. When we met, we weren't looking for relationship. I met him few times but when I was at his place last, he told me to stay. Out of kindness? Wanting more sex? Maybe he's developed feeling?

I had sex with this guy who was my friend first but then good friends with my ex. My ex and I had a really bad break up and friend group split. The guy I slept with was both our friend and he really liked his friends on my exs side of the split.

He barely replied to me after having sex. Then eventually did I asked was it terrible? He said no best thing I’ve seen in ages. Then I said did I feel terrible my ex told me he stretched me out loads and he said no “felt plenty” of tight. He just didn’t want to stir things between me and my ex and lose his friends.

The sex barely lasted 5 mins and he constantly had to pull out and start again. It was really short.

Is this the truth? Why would he have done it in the first place. He also told both his close friends about it.

Him and I were friends years before I ever met my ex.

He also kept trying to see me loads before sleeping with me. Then after sleeping with me went distant.

Was it the ties with the friends or he found the sex/me terrible?

1 🤔 while you were single, were you still having sex?

2 OK sooo I do have friends with which there is a mutual attraction but where neither of us see a relationship working out and sometimes we “spend time together.”

1 So would you let me know if you were still “spending time together” if I decided I was ready to date (in future)

2 wouldn’t be “spending time together”

with them if You told me you wanted to date me.🙂

🤨 Well, what if I (in future) decided to date but I am not “ready to spend time together” ?

(SEX y’all we mean sex. In case anyone didn’t catch it. “Spending time together” was the euphemism P 1 originally used for banging his friends, & I was repeating for consistency)

2 If I have a reason to wait, I can wait. But we don’t really have to worry about that at this point.

1 🤨🧐😐 Wait so then why did you go through all that stuff in the first place about how you hope you can marry while your grandparents are still here. You seem fairly casual so I don’t see why you felt the need to mention it. I wouldn’t have even been concerned about any of this 🤦🏻‍♀️

2 Well honestly they are relatively young so they have time. And while I really mean it I also do not believe in forcing things… So I am hopeful but careful.

1 Ok

2 Ok

2 … So… what now 😐

1 I don't know 🤷🏻‍♀️ 👀

(Quiet for a long time)

2 Are you ready to go home? I will walk you. You are welcome to stay but it’s a bit late. I know you get up early af)

(So he walks me 🏡 I was quiet during)

2 OK so no kiss but Can I hug you😁?

1 hmm OK. maybe. ok NO. OK. 🤔

2 Are you sure? 👀

1 I think so? I don't know. nvm. Well, Uhh — maybe next time. Sorry not feeling it atm. 🤦🏻‍♀️

2 It’s OK. 😌

(He buttoned my top coat buttons which was a bit weird 👀 but I guess it’s something to do I don't know)

2 You will be at your tree 🌲 tomorrow?

1 Yeah… 🤷🏻‍♀️

2 See you on my way to work. You can tell me If you want to hang out / when you want to, yeah?

So we said good night. 🌚