Should I tell him I’m on my period before going over to his place?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been dating this guy for a couple months. Im 26 and he is 28. We are in a longish distance relationship so we don’t get to see each other too often but we talk/check in everyday. I am going to see him tomorrow (this would be our 4th date) and we were talking the other day about finally having sex, which I am very excited about. But, I got my period this morning and hate having period sex. I feel bloated and crampy and just not sexy at all. Guys, should I tell him before I go to stay with him that I have my period and we can’t have sexy time or should I wait until I am there. Would you be disappointed?

[20yearsolder]

Sure, why not be honest. You can tell him that you're very disappointed but I just wanted to let you know that I started my period and I'm really not in the period sex.

[D-Pad_Chad]

This recently happened to me. I was pissed and I turned around and dropped her right back off at her place. Might not be a similar reaction, but it will be a similar feeling towards you.

[more_than_a_guy]

Yes, so you can plan what to do, not being in a surprise

[larry69]

I would try to convince you to have period sex.