Search Results: scaring me away

My anxiety is ruining my first relationship and I don't know what to do, help?

So I have really bad anxiety that has shown itself in my relationship. This is my first boyfriend and so this is all new to me and it is scary. I will open up about some things but I can't always carry whole conversation....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does he keep a scoreboard instead of going things because he cares?

Am I crazy or is this extremely abusive? I asked him to come over last night because I've was having suicidal thoughts. I didn't want to inconvenience him though so I told him he didn't have to but I was scared and I...

MorgueInTheVoid

Xper 2 Age: 28

Have you ever been Molested? Has it effected you?

I been doing a lot of research on Molestation to come to find out most the shit I read has hit the nail right on the head as to why I am a certain way , For years I never thought it effected me, but from what I researched...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

Girl's Behavior

Why did this woman lie to me about being sick?

She told me she was sick then I said I wish I could take her sickness away and she said she was lying about being sick. Why do you think she did this? Least she was being honest. I don’t want to ask her why because I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She told me she was sick then I said I wish I could take her sickness away and she said she was lying about being sick. Why do you think she did this? Least she was being honest. I

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Girl's Behavior

Has the spark faded or is she scared?

Over a year ago a friend (22F) and I (23M) began texting daily, which led to no strings sexting and make out sessions. As time went on, things began to develop differently from other friends with benefits situations and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I know I should jump in the relationship?

Been conflicted on completely trusting this guy. We’ve known each other for about more than an year but started to seriously talk for 3 months on a regular basis. He’s a guy who respects my time boundaries, fun to talk...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He said he will be a good dad, how should I respond?

My situation-ship asked me last night if I want kids in the future. I told him I did and asked him the same. He said he wants kids in the future and that he thinks he’ll be a good dad. How do I respond to this without...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

A friend left me in the middle of nowhere at night?

My friend and I met for dinner and she insisted to drive me back home. I told her I can just take an uber, but she refused. On the way home, she missed an exit and got mad, and she told me that she's gonna drop me off at...

Anonymous

(30-35)

One of my High School (14 Male) Classmate called me "Babe" and we locked eyes and he smiled genuinely at me. I barely know him. What does this mean?

For more details: This all started probably 4 or 5 weeks ago. He randomly call me "babe" and I dont know why. Is he teasing me playfully or... insulting me? For now, I notice he is only saying this pet name only to me....

CuteSmuggleBear

Xper 2 Age: 19

Should I tell him the truth?

I’ve been talking to this guy for awhile, things seem fine but we haven’t asked each other out yet. I don’t wanna wait for him to ask me out, but I’m scared he’ll reject me if I step up and ask him first. And sadly I’ve...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My ex calls, texts daily, spends time with me, picks me up from the airport, etc. It seems like we are still together. Why? Why not get back 2gethger?

He (30) broke up with me (37) a couple months ago. I had a moment of insecurity that caused a big fight. He calls and texts regularly. I’ve ghosted a couple of times because it felt like it was going no where. We were...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does my ex still call, text, spend time with me, help me but doesn’t seem to want to get back 2gether? I love him and want him back. What do I do?

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex girlfriend is stalking me and my new girlfriend. Is this harmless and normal? Will it go away as time goes on?

What happened was my girlfriend had called me when I was at work and she sounded scared. I could tell by the tone of her voice and she told me “I think someone was following me.” I mentioned the pronoun “he” in my reply...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

How am I suppose to handle it?

I went to a party with some coworkers we were 10 it was suppose to be only coworkers but during the party one of my colleagues cousin came and he was the only stranger I just remember taking one drink then next moment he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is he just going back to his ex because he knows he can't have me?

I have this friend at work and we are really close. We first met when we are both in relationships with other people. I thought he was cute and over time my attraction towards him became wrong and was starting to go too...

Anonymous

(25-29)

To all the men out there, wondering what women really want.

I've been asked to write something like this a few times by several different people so here goes. What I want in a man Everyone is different in what they are looking for. I can only say what I personally look for and...

Aerissa_Jade

Guru Age: 25

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I am going through depression because I had to choose my parents over my love?

Very hard to explain... but I am going through depression. For my parents, I recently left my boyfriend of long years. They didn't even want to meet him and there wasn't any reason behind it, just fear of society and ego....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he like me or did I misunderstand this guy who constantly sneaks glances at me and scared him off by asking for his insta?

So at the gym there’s this guy who would sneak glances at me often, but I ignored him and recently I opened up to have a relationship so I noticed him and kinda started crushing on him hahah. So I asked for his insta and...

Anonymous

(18-24)