My ex girlfriend is stalking me and my new girlfriend. Is this harmless and normal? Will it go away as time goes on?

[Anonymous]

What happened was my girlfriend had called me when I was at work and she sounded scared. I could tell by the tone of her voice and she told me “I think someone was following me.” I mentioned the pronoun “he” in my reply and she said “oh, no. The person following me was a girl with blonde hair.”

So my ex girlfriend has blonde hair. I am not 100% if my girlfriend was just mistaken. But my ex girlfriend was always the weird one from the group and has little friends. She owns a handgun also.

By the way, I haven’t even told my girlfriend that my ex is stalking us. She views our instagram stories every day.

[BigschlongEnergy]

Well forget the cops 👮‍♂️ There’s nothing they can do Until your girlfriend Actually commits a crime and Looking at your stories or Following Your girlfriend Isn’t illegal It’s only illegal if someone is harmed physically or your house gets broken into
And if Your girlfriend Does break in don’t be the guy that goes downstairs with his gun and shoots his girlfriend dead have a freaking conversation with her before you decide to go full blown killer.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. Why haven't you already blocked your ex on all social media.

2. You should report stalking to her family, if they are involved in her life, and let them know that the next step is to get the police involved if they can't convince your ex to leave you alone.

3. If there is no family or close friend you can talk to, report this to the police.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[sweet-chocolate]

Sheesh. It's not normal and it's not harmless. You should confront her about it and if she doesn't stop, get a retraining order eh. What if she hurts you or hour girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I had a boy stalk me for months and the police discovered loads of pictures of me on his phone, it's creepy

[Asker]

That’s you?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes?

[Asker]

You look pretty hot

[Opinion Owner]

You can barely see me lol

[Asker]

I see enough

[Opinion Owner]

Pervert

[dustybiker]

Alert your local law enforcement. Document everything date/time stamped.

[tonamimargaux]

Hmm stalking on stories is normal until it escalates. How was she when you guys were dating? Was she crazy was she abusive?

[JPresidente]

A woman scorned…. you admit you cheated on her. Yikes dude. ☹️

[_Just_A_girl_]

Dm her you filed a police report or something if she comes back she goin to jail

[Anonymous]

What are you going to do? Are you going to call the cops?

[BigschlongEnergy]

And tell them what There was a lady in a red hood She Is stalking me Oh yeah cause that will go over well Stalking isn’t Illegal Until a crime gets committed.

[Staximus]

Once somebody starts following people around it's time to call the police

[Anonymous]

It is very possible. There are a lot of crazy people out there. You should make sure your girlfriend is informed about the situation.

[AddylynnNightingale]

Report her to the authorities.

[WhitneySnow]

That’s creepy and not normal

[Anonymous]

What did you do to make her crazy?

[Asker]

Cheated and left her for the girl I cheated with. I know it’s bad.

[Opinion Owner]

Ew wtf you're disgusting

[Asker]

I fell in love with someone else…

[Opinion Owner]

You could have broken up with her. You're a degenerate!

[Asker]

I’m sorry that I am not perfect. I happened to catch feelings for someone else who I am more compatible with.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not saying about catching feelings... I'm saying the right thing to do was tell your ex it 2as over before pursuing some other girl

[Opinion Owner]

*was

[Asker]

She was my friend circle prior. It happened by accident.

[Opinion Owner]

You don't cheat on someone by accident. It was a choice. Stop trying to make excuses.

[Asker2022]

😳.

Run!

[OddBeMe]

Then maybe stop IGing for a while.

[Nominal]

Get proves, Report to police.

[BananaBrother]

I guess she wants some threesome.