I just realized my ex girlfriend used to stalk me when our relationship was ending. why do girls stalk?

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In those times, the relationship was close to an end. We were fighting a lot in the end. I remember she would always ask me at night where i was, but i almost never told her the truth when i went out at night. I went out with my bestfriend who she didn't like and she wanted me to befriend him but was i never gonna leave my best friend of 15 years. So i was pretty much hiding him from her to keep him in my life. plus i never cheated on her. There was one night that i thought i saw her parked outside in a different neighborhood but she then turned the car away and left.

At the time I didn't pay much attention to it so i didn't think much of it but it did get my attention for a small split second. Later on, It was around 6pm on a Tuesday and my best friend came to my house and asked me if my girlfriend was around but i told him no. We didn't think much of it so we left. We were going to the movies that night. Months passed after we broke up, my best friend told me the he saw her when he was coming to my house that night of the movies. That he guaranteed me it was her. So it all clicked and all the dots connected. When we broke up no wonder she told me i was a serial liar, but at the time i didn't understand why she said that. In my terms i thought i never lied to her but now it makes sense what she meant. i did lie to her about my location where i was some nights. i always told her i was going to sleep or stayed home but the reality is that was with my friend or somewhere else. she used to work for a hospital near my area so it made sense why she would stalk me.

She had the right to lose trust in me but now i think it was interesting that she stalked me but i wondered why she did it since she was the one who broke up with me. Was she afraid of something why the hell would she stalk me? at the same time. I never thought a girl would stalk me in my life but at the same time it does give me the creeps since i don't know how long she stalked me for.

I just realized my ex girlfriend used to stalk me when our relationship was ending. why do girls stalk?
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