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Is there something you find disingenuous about the “my ex was a narcissist or psychopath” type of movement going on?
if you keep thinking of people as narcissists it makes you as a result always be the victim but in reality we are all humans and do bad things whether we mean to or not. I started watching the podcast this morning about...
Eatthatgirl
Xper 1 Age: 33 Re connecting with an old flame, is it worth the risk?
Around this time last year I had a brief fling with a friend, it didn't end up working out as we were both in different places, wanted different things etc and we ended on okay terms. I do see him now and then and we are...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why does it seem like men who already have girlfriends are the ones who seem or act or feel like they’re the most entitled to other women’s energy?
Why are guys with girlfriends the ones who have seemed the most entitled to my time and energy and life? I know you’re thinking ‘well why are you giving them attention or your time etc?’ But these have been coworkers who...
Askquestiins
Xper 1 Age: 33 How to deal with narcissistic executives at work?
I recently started a new job at an established company, and I’m looking for some advice on handling interactions with one of the top executives who has a pretty narcissistic behavior pattern. He’s known for being very...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you think this site has lot of simps?
I met some men on here who think women can't hurt or assault people and they have no reason for their thinking. Are these guys in the minority?
MK1997
Xper 7 Age: 28 He only talks about himself & ex and friends?
There’s a guy that I became friends with recently and we had lots of good chats honestly and he is really kind, understanding guy however I realized today that he most of time talks about whether himself or his ex mostly...
Anonymous
(18-24) Are there guys out there who genuinely find an average girl attractive and does not wish or fantasies about better looking women?
I have always felt a pressure to look a certain way, to have the whole instagram drop dead gorgeous type of beauty. I’m nothing special. I’m plain. White, skinny, no facial features that stick out except maybe my eyes. I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Doing well on Tinder & Co but all girls want is hookups/shortterm?
I reached the point were I kinda just want to settle down. I been single since 3 years and had long term relationships before. Now it seems like any girl I meet only wants to have sex or friends with benefits but nothing...
Anonymous
(30-35) My ex has ruined my self esteem and it's been over a year. How do you recover from a toxic relationship?
We were with each other for several years and we were each others first loves but I broke up with him. I've always known I'm average but I had hoped that maybe there could be at least one guy out there, who could choose...
Anonymous
(30-35) Have you ever been cheated on? How did you handle it?
So, picture this: I’m chilling at home, and I decide to grab my girl’s phone to check something for her. I scroll through her messages, and BOOM—I see her texting this dude. The convo is wild, like they're flirting hard,...
Lurix
Xper 4 Age: 26 What do you think is the worst possible time to be hungover?
When I was 22 I went to this event in southeastern Queensland (I’m from Australia FYI) called the Jane Austen picnic. It’s this event that’s where you dress in whatever you would’ve been wearing in the late 18th century...
Aura67
Xper 5 Age: 29 
thegreenyogi
Guru Age: 35 What do I do if I realized after years that my work crush boss is just a perverted old guy? He doesn’t have anything deeper to him?
He doesn’t have anything deeper to him and I am completely wasting my time thinking of him, but I see him at work. I can’t believe I spent years imagining his face having good character traits. All I seen so far is he...
Lightinfugoo
Xper 1 Age: 62 Please help!! is he just leading me on?
So I’ve been on a couple dates with this guy and they went really well. He has a really demanding job, which I completely understand. He’s passionate about his work and I like that about him. He doesn’t really text, which...
Anonymous
(30-35) What do you call men who put masks on to abuse women?
I know this girl and I have known her for a long time... I was talking to her and she mentioned that she has put her self in bad situations where she regretted it. Then it came to this guy who gave her a birthday gift and...
LadiesFavoriteToy
Xper 7 Age: 23 Should I let my girlfriend go without me on vacation with her friends?
So we were doing a quiz together and this came up and I think that for me if my boys invited me to go on a trip, I would want to bring my girlfriend with me. I told her that I wouldn’t be comfortable with her going out...
michalpl00
Xper 5 Age: 26 How do you reconcile how many partners a new partner has had before you?
This is not a question you might be thinking it is. This is not a question about body counts. And maybe this is a question that is more significant for guys. But since I've seen women on this site ask questions regarding...
ChiTown33
Master Age: 50 Do you think it is appropriate to ask for a girls number while she's working - given I might not have another chance?
Hello everyone, I am infatuated with this girl that works as a cinema attendant at one of the cinema theathers in my town. I find her very, very beautiful and she seams to have this sweet, joyful demeanour that just has...
clm4st3r
Xper 1 Age: 34 Girls, how do you deal with a guy telling you that “you’re too good for him”?
I was talking to him and I was telling him about myself, he actually sounded like shocked and said wow, here I am thinking I’m doing something with my life but you’re doing a lot. You’re way out of my league. Then after...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you think that it's okay for black women to date outside their race?
Asking because I will admit, as a mixed girl who would just consider herself "black" mainly (I guess), I do love white men and Hispanic men. I like black guys too, but I kind of just assume they won't like me because I'm...
Ghost_Mochi
Xper 1 Age: 24 