Search Results: being a good friend

He wants to know who im going on vacation with... why?

I was out with a guy friend I'm into and hoping grows into more. Unfortunately he's a coworker and we've been taking it really slowly. He asked me who I was going on vacation with when I mentioned i was travelling in the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I stop people trying to gossip with me?

I love a little abit of gossip and drama when I'm not involved but it isn't good for my soul and get myself in trouble because I speak my mind. for example i stayed respectful towards these people and still talk but just...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Should I date an ugly guy?

After unsuccessful dating attempts a family member decides to set me up with this guy saying that “He’s a good guy” and “He’s really sweet”. I figured she knows me so knows what I’m into. This guy should be a little bit...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are men just naturally touchy, feely people?

I'm unsure because I grew up in a town were people weren't friendly, most people were not kind to me growing up because I was seen as different especially boys. I was always bullied by boys and in adulthood I was seen as...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Should I reach out to this woman I used to date to tell her to stop bashing me online and stop mistreating my friend who is her co-worker?

Back in March, I ended things with a woman I met on Hinge. Long story, short: We went on 10 dates over the course of 3 weeks. She kept embarrassing me in public, violating my boundaries, and wasn’t a good listener. So I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a young woman get antisocial towards acqaintances when strangers are around?

We know how she's like, she opens up when being with few friends only. But when strangers join us for card games, she tends to being rude towards actual friends. I've tried to talk to friends who she talked against, since...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

How to handle a lack of interest by women

This is actually both a question and a proposed answer My Take. Maybe even a Journal of where my life is at currently. To start, I will state my dilemma. I notice there is something missing in my life that makes my life...

strangeatcircleK

Xper 4 Age: 42

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Health & Fitness

Is there a good way of getting my friend to lose some weight?

This isn't about not accepting them how they are but you being worried about their health. What if they're binging on junk food, not doing exercise, gaining more than 20 Ibs in 4 months and having both high levels of...

Shelly2002

Xper 5 Age: 24

Is being pressured to shake hands to make peace worse than openly disliking someone?

Long ago, I was friends with 4 girls. They were friends with someone other girl I clashed with several times. One of the arguments almost led to a physical fight (so close), had two girls not intervened on time. One day,...

Danielle93

Guru Age: 33

What do men do this?

I recently found out that one of my close friends (who was in a relationship for 4 years) was being cheated on by her boyfriend. She was really good to him, did everything for him, they lived together too and were both...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I have to trust my gut?

Some months ago, I met someone whom I felt (or that's what I thought) some kind of connection. We stayed in contact via WhatsApp, but I wanted to meet again face to face. In the beginning, he promised it was going to be,...

Rei02

Explorer Age: 40

Anyone else grew up unnatractive to others? Has anything changed for you as you got older?

Back when I was younger i was depressed over my appearance honestly felt like no females really liked me anyway no one really told me they actually liked me either. made me just depressed each day honestly I remember one...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is he so hot and cold?

I have been friends with this guy for almost 6 years. The last few years he's been hot and cold, flirting with me. Like flirting then pulling away, teasing me flirtatiously, but when I get serious with him about it. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How serious is he about based on the info below?

Based on the info below, how serious does he seem to be about us? It’s been established weeks ago he’s not a player so let’s not bring that up. He is 29 and I’m 37. 1. He texts me all day every day, for weeks now. 2....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Do girls really like nice guys who actually care about them or are they just fooling themselves?

Do you girls really prefer a nice guy or do you just say it to get'em as friends while you're banging the so called "bad boy" who treats you like shit and doesn't really give a fuck about you, just so you could complain...

D_D_D

Xper 5 Age: 22

What is going on with my best friend?

We used to be very close. I mean texting almost all day, everyday. Talking on the phone for hours. Talking about literally anything that would come to mind, whether it was just light hearted or a deep vulnerable...

ginamengi

Xper 3 Age: 28

When he says he doesn’t want a relationship ship and is in a relationship 3 months later with another girl?

I feel so sad and hurt because I was dating this guy for over a couple months and was so into him. It got to a point where I wanted to be exclusive and he wasn’t ready and in a further conversation told me that he wasn’t...

Daniellep1995

Xper 6 Age: 31