I have been friends with this guy for almost 6 years. The last few years he's been hot and cold, flirting with me. Like flirting then pulling away, teasing me flirtatiously, but when I get serious with him about it. He like she's away or says he's joking. I want to believe that, but it doesn't seem that way. He always wonders about how I'm dating teasing me about it. He dates girls, often.. like possibly a new girl every few months and he always complains.
How they are "this" and "that"
I'm trying to help him, like don't break up so soon, what do you like about them, see the good side, he just says that they are cute.. and I get that. I know he's abit shallow when it comes to the girls he likes. So I get confused when he flirts with me, because he's a Chinese guy, who dates skinny, pretty Chinese guys and I'm fat black and ugly.. no just kidding lol but I am a taller chubby black woman.
Like today it was the same thing "complain about girlfriend, ask who I'm dating, flirting with me, then saying it's a joke, wanting a hug but acting awkward about it" like this has been our cycle the last few years, even at dinner today I told him to stop being shallow and that I pray he finds someone he can love on the inside as well as the outside, he said "like you" and then he started laughing and we kept eating. I don't know.. It's weird.