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I'm kind of bored. Here's a dating poll. Vote based on your gender and/or se xuality. Yes; none of them are "perfect." That's not the point. Just pick the best one for you out of these options. Who's Best Girl/Guy?

FOR STRAIGHT GIRLS AND GAY DUDES:

Option A - A 5'5"/165 cm very short, 21 year old, decent-looking, fit guy, who is Asian or Indian, is poor, only earning $15K a year working in fast food or as a barista, who has a nice and romantic personality.

Option B - A 5'10"/178 cm short, 27 year old, overweight guy with a beer belly/dad bod, who is black or Middle-eastern, earning $40K a year as a security guard, who is very funny, charming, respectful, interesting, and astute in personality.

Option C - A 6'3"/190 cm tall, 33 year old, handsome, athletic guy with a six pack, who is white or Hispanic, earning $160K a year as a lawyer, who's also divorced and has a small pe nis, and has a big ego & short temper in personality.

FOR STRAIGHT GUYS AND QUEER FEMALES:

Option D - A 4'10"/147 cm very short, 22 year old, fair-looking, fit & in-shape girl, who is Indian or Middle-eastern, grew up spoiled by her rich parents and doesn't work for a living, is highly attracted to you romantically and physically, who is known to be easily jealous & clingy in personality.

Option E - A 5'5"/165 cm short, 26 year old, chubby and busty girl, who is white or Asian, and works as an office secretary at a small business earning $32K a year, and is rather lazy outside of work, who is very loving & motherly to everyone in personality.

Option F - A 6'0"/183 cm tall, 30 year old, beautiful, toned and slim girl, with a 34DD cup bust, who is black or Hispanic, earning $60K a year as an amateur Instagram model, who has a past as a former escort/pros titute and OF worker, who is very down-to-earth & modest in personality.

Hey everyone, I’m looking for your input and advice. ****not complaining, I just need help understanding bc I’m a dumb cis straight white male****

Am I leading these women on somehow?

I went through a breakup in September, with 0 bad terms between us, she was way out of my league both physically and as a human. I was and still am deeply in love with her, and I never shut the fuck up about her to people while I was with her (almost 2 years). We’re still super close.

about me (just trust that my self assessment is true for this exercise): I’m a lot of fun, around 30 years old, attractive but not active, so I have a dad bod but I’m really fucking funny and charismatic. I have a lot of beautiful platonic and meaningful female friendships that are strictly friendships. I’m a sweet heart and people are generally protective of me, because I’m depressed and having a hard time and they all love me more than I do. Aka, women see that and feel safe around me.

at the same time, I have a dad bod, my life is a mess right now, I’m openly still in love with my girlfriend, I communicate that “I’m not ready to date anyone right now.” I’m about to start attending both NA and AA meetings. I feel like somehow, me being at the lowest point in my life, is somehow attracting all these beautiful women who are initiating conversations with me and asking me to hang out.

I haven’t slept with anyone since my ex because I’m not ready for that, it would make me too sad. But, I’m a total flirt.
Anyway, one of my gal pals said that my behavior is confusing, because I’m vulnerable and texting with them, and still flirty. But I’m just thinking like, “surely my life is so shitty right now that no woman wants any part of the mess that I am right now.”

so why do you think I’m getting this new attention?

When women see short men they're not going to take him serious or try to date him. When a man sees a fat women he's not going to take her serious or try to date her. The minute a man has a preference he's looked at as an asshole. I know plenty of fat women that could lose weight. But I don't know anyone that can take a pill to get taller. So in my eyes women have shitty preferences and are very shallow but the second you tell them this they know your not lying so they will shame you back. Watch out for these women guys.

There's always exceptions to every rule so ladies don't come up with well my friend down the street she like this so your point is invalid.