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They always swipe on the same men and only 1 in 20 profiles

What’s the point? Why do women only look for the best looking men out there? The best of the best. Most of you are not that special.

It goes to show beauty is not in the eye of the beholder.

If women really care about personality why don’t they get to know other men?

I have an East Asian friend (probably Japanese or Korean; I don't know tbh). He was rejected four times this month, so my boys and I are trying to help him out. Here's his stats based on the most objective analysis we have created:

• 6'3 tall
• quite the handsome devil
  • impeccable jawline
  • piercing eyes although they aren't blue
• well-built (athletic)
• smart
  • 1570 on the SAT; can you believe it?
• great personality
  • friendly
  • confident
  • has leadership

We REALLY want to help him. Why does he still get no girls at all?

One of the things that we came up with is that he's Asian and therefore looks unattractive (we live in a small town where he is the only nonwhite kid in school). However, we really don't want to end this off on such a hopeless note. After all, we've known each other in our friend group for 11 years. For reference, I am only 5'10 and semi-obese, but I still pull more girls than him. There is a girl, known to be the "ugly duckling".

Do we really just tell him that Asian guys are just inherently unattractive, or is there some other way we can sugarcoat it?

If someone that you knew from years ago, sends you a friend request on FB, you accept it. A year or so later, you add them on Snapchat, and they add you back. In a year or so, span you comment on like 2 of the person's pics, and they respond with hearts both times. Some months go by, and the person responds to one of your snaps, where you are playfully teasing yourself, and rebuffs it, like I was being serious. I started commented more on their snaps, having casual conversation, and they respond, usually with substance. The person watches my stories, because their is a thing where you can see it, and then I would compliment the person sometimes on appearance, or just having general conversation. After a while, they responded to a few more of my snaps, and give me weird compliments, like your hair looks fine, or would send emoji if they agreed with something I said on my story, if it applied to them, and complimented me, like they know me personally, when we don't interact in person, and haven't in quite some time, like 10 years ago. When I clarified that I was not trying to seek attention, because that's why I thought they responded, or I was giving off any negative vibes, they said they never took it that way. It just felt weird to me. I don't compliment that person on their personality because I don't interact with them IRL. I will compliment certain things like a drawing, or if they get an award, or something they are wearing, but I never actually complimented them, like I see or talk to them personally anymore. I know it's assumption, but it's still weird to compliment my personality. Do you think it's just friendly interaction, or that and something more? I'll say the person seems to be cool and is cute looking wise to me, but I don't know.