They always swipe on the same men and only 1 in 20 profiles
What’s the point? Why do women only look for the best looking men out there? The best of the best. Most of you are not that special.
It goes to show beauty is not in the eye of the beholder.
If women really care about personality why don’t they get to know other men?
Because it is a dating app
Do you know how many women I've heard say they were in a relationship with some guy they were crazy about but said that initially he wasn't the type she would have gone after but meeting him and talking to him and getting to know him something clicked and she became very attracted to him and he had a presence the drew her in that she couldn't resist?
You can find that on a dating app. They will just pick the most attractive guys, the guys that look like they make a lot and such. Without meeting them in person they gloss over those men.
I dunno, I hit pass on every woman on many different sites and then gave up. All the good ones were outside the US. I literally ran out of women to look at as options on those sites. And you might be thinking, thats a lot of swiping left, but its not.
Once you filter for atheist, non smoker, non drinker, no drugs, doesn't have or want kids, etc etc. it cuts out like 90% of the users on there, then hobbies narrow it further.
There were lots of hot women to pick from, but they were all boring hot women, or they were perfect matches who were hot and had everything in common with me, but on the other side of the planet so I couldn't date/marry them.
Well considering you are swiping that is your first problem.. and the other thing is women are looking to mate with this person so they are gonna pick the best looking item not an average one..
Also many men pick women they think are less attractive then the prettiest and just try to use them so once that happens they don't give anyone a chance unless they are hot as fuck because if they are gonna be used it might as well be by someone worth it..
I've never really used dating sites, but poking around they are a horror show. A barrier to entry is a good thing at improving quality of a marketplace. Dating sites have none.
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u You believe that 95% of all guys who try online dating never get a match?
I do the same, so should every man.
Not finding 95% of women attractive should be quite reasonable. You shouldn't want to date every woman you meet. Some are overweight, have bad habits, aren't attractive, or they are attractive but there is nothing drawing you towards them. Too many are generically attractive, and who cares for an attractive husk with no inner cultivation. Others are bitchy and demanding in their profiles, while not offering much in return.
Self respect, always.
We don't care about personality (well, we do but not much), we just claim we do because that is politically correct. However, we swipe the good-looking HOT guys because they will respond and we can get them. Since we can get the best and the hottest guys, we don't swipe you worthless average guys. You are not HOT so you have nothing to offer.
bro are you slow?
clearly women are not as needy as we are, they have options and we dont. a woman isn't gonna swipe right on you unless you look like Jeremy Micks or knows she's gonna get rewarded with other things by swiping right on you
because weak men create hard times.
98% of guys can't stop k1ssing females behind.
This is a non-stop showering women with none-stop compliments and begging them for dates, s3x etc..
so naturally 98% of think they are the lies most men keep telling them.. So they all chase superman which they can't find of course.
Women get 100s of matches there, so they can be choosy and pick Mr Perfect.
This can be solved by halving the male population and doubling the female population. Maybe then the boys will get matches on the regular too.
It's a hookup site technically, no one uses it to date bro and to be fair i think guys do the same, physical appearance plays a role in society, it's just how it is
Its a shame they don't teach you this in biology class. Males exist to "purify" the species of trash genetics. Ideally women have kids with a hot male and live with an unattractive male who provides for her. And that's not far off from how the real world works because about 50% of kids are born to single mothers.
Why do men think we take those apps seriously?
That is really the sad part of this.
Because it's much easier to shoot for the stars on-line.
Men mostly do the same. People who do that stay single.
Because most men on dating apps do not match our criteria and are not physically attractive.
If you're texted by women wanting to fuck you every day, why would you swipe a lot?
We can get anyone we want. If guys could get any hot girl that's all they would be doing.
Anyone who's concerned about personality isn't using a swiping dating app to meet people.
Start with the top 5% and then work your way down. It's a reasonable way to go. Why start with the mediocre?
because there's more men on dating apps, always has been
I only swipe right 1% of the time. Lots of fugs.
It is what is. This isn't anything new and its not going to change. Men shouldn't be on dating apps anyway
Who cares.
Go get a back and hit the gym 🏋️♂️
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