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I started a new job and have found out quickly the reason people quit is because is environment is horrendous. It is mostly coming from one woman who has been there for over 40 years. She is knowledgeable about her job but such a bitchy and mean person. I am stuck with this woman directly as I am working along side her. She constantly tries to put blame on me for things that happened even before I got there. My workload is piling up because she is passing her work onto me.

Not only calling other members of staff, c*nts, pr*cks, stupid b*tches. She started referring to the black people in our office as monkeys and other vicious remarks. Now first I thought I misheard but she said numerous times on Friday and I have not stopped thinking about it all weekend. I have already started applying for new jobs so hope to be out of there soon. Should I tell my other colleagues what has happened and the two girls in HR are the ones she is directing her hate at the most, so I feel I can’t even go to them. And the boss who has only been there 5 year walks on eggshells around this woman cause of the time she has been there. I would have stayed in this job if it was not for this woman. What should I do?

A few years ago, a high school friend created a dating profile for me on a website since she wanted to see me with a boyfriend (i know, weird). Anyway, I used the profile and started chatting it up with a few men, some I even know today. One guy, in particular, liked me a lot, even though I wasn't too keen on him at first. I entertained him since I was bored, but I eventually developed feelings for him. I did break it off with him because he lived 3 hours away from me, gave off very aggressive vibes, and I started to like someone closer by. Over time, he was on my mind, and we did text each other occasionally, but it was very short convos. He even wrote many poems about how heartbroken he was that I ended that online long-distance thing with him too.

Fast forward to recently, he told me he was joining the military and wanted to pursue me again. I was interested and was thinking about him frequently while he was at boot camp. Right after he came back, we texted like usual, and everything was fine until he wanted to make a last-minute trip to see me before leaving the country. I had to decline and that changed the dynamic of the relationship a little bit. A few weeks later, he informed me that he had gotten a girl pregnant. I immediately cut contact with him since he betrayed me somewhat. Now, he's texting me frequently and calling, claiming that he loves me still and cannot die without giving "us" a chance. He knew what he did was wrong and apologized for his mistakes to the point he doesn't think about anything sexual anymore as often as he once did. Do you think it is worth it to pursue a relationship with him with all of this information or should i let him be? I don't want to waste time in a toxic relationship.