Hey guys, how are you?
I haven't posted any question here since a while but I really need your advice, and thank you a for taking a time reading this.
So basically I met this girl 2 years ago, at the beginning, we were just friends.. good friends, we used to do a lot of things together.
Progressively I started to developed strong feelings, she is just awesome to me in everything. Itgoes to the point that I felt the necessity to tell her, so I did. I knew it was not mutual and she was dating someone else, I just did it to feel relieved and moveon.
I'vebeen in the otherside with other girls, they told me they like me but it's not mutual and I take it very assertive, calm and fresh, Italk what I feel and offer my friendship and theydecided to accepted or not. I even have friends that used to like me. So I thought she could take it the same way.
I have no problem being friends with someone Ireally like, I can deal with it. After I time I can really be just a friend.
After a told to her a Ilike her things were being ok for months, the same friendship we used to have and we didn't talk about that anymore, until she started to getting distant, slowly. and that's what make feel bad anddepressed, I really appreciate her as a person and a friend, we did a lot of thing together, so that attitude really shattered me.
A situation happend once and she told me a lot a things including "thanks for everything, don't forget me please, etc" thingslikethat. And I was like what? Don'tsay that, why would I forget you (nothing bad happened just a situation)
For months we still in contact and hanging out And now I'm thinking she was saying goodbye to me because she's gettingmoredistant. Now I feel very sad Idon't know why she's doing that.. I feel that now she thinks I'm weird, doesn't want to talk anymore, I feel insecure, Iprefer she to be straight forward, getting slowly distant hurts me more, Idon't know what's really happening or it's just meoverthinking, what should Ido
