Booooooooooy I am the same! You are not alone.
Some of us are just wired this way - we love close, intimate relationships and sharing strong bonds/emotional connections with someone.
My best advice for you would be not to settle. You mentioned that you're shy to approach women but you have to realise that in order to get a girlfriend you MUST overcome that fear. Focus on finding the RIGHT person for you, and then you'll realise that rejection would be the worst case scenario. So what if it was? You move onto the next person and you're one step closer to the RIGHT person.
And believe me, being with the wrong person is a lot more lonely than being alone.
Meanwhile keep yourself busy. Use this time to focus on your goals and develop the traits you want in a partner. You have to be comfortable and happy to be alone (although there's nothing wrong with simultaneously wanting a girlfriend). But it shouldn't make you feel depressed. It will happen at the right time.
Keep focussing on you, your career, your hobbies and that person will come into your life I promise.
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Learn to be happy and love yourself. Until you do, it'll be easy for you to get a girlfriend because people today I just desperate for anybody's. But that doesn't guarantee it will be a long lasting relationship or something that's going to last let alone Be Healthy. What you're going through is normal but that's no logical reason to seek a partner. You got to be secure in yourself. If you're not learning to accept the love that you have around you, you're going to have a very hard time accepting the love from somebody else is supposed to be who's your dating. You should not be seeking a girlfriend. You should be seeking a wife. A girlfriend is not the ultimate goal. Having a spouse is if that is what you seek. because girlfriends come and go. A wife should be somebody who stays forever. Do you not have any female friends who would meet such a requirement?
Been there, done that. Girls (in my region) don't want love.
So I got used to it. I keep making more money and spend it on prostitutes.
Welp at least you have some good friends. Look at what you do have not what you don't.
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There is nothing you can do about it. Better learn to live with that or maybe get a dog. Single life better anyway.
Learn to talk to the other half of s population. Your life will require your to interact with females regardless if you date them. What helped me was having as many female friends as possible.
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