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I've lived and lead a very different life and experience...
not once in any of my relationships... we never ever had to discuss "loyalty' and being faithful
it just wasn't even a thought that crossed our minds, being loyal and faithful was a GIVEN, a certain thing, it was there by default, we did not have to "promise or reassure" to one another
our character was enough reassurance that we were both the right kind of people, no games to play... no insecurities to ever worry about stuff like this
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Yeah and the key when the girl gawking happens is to act like it is not uncommon. One does not speak of it but the point of regularity can be made... The Test trap is set. Be attentive but do not try to make her feel secure in herself if she is threatened and disheveled... that's how you want her.-She will feel like she has won the Prize that evening realizing there is "no tomorrow if she doesn't F-that night." ;-)
I don’t but my husband gets turned on when other guys check me out. I’m 42 & in pretty good shape. Anyway this summer I was with my husband of 18 years at the beach and some college age kids maybe early 20s were totally checking me out I was in my thong bikini and my hubby was like all over me hands all of me my butt my boobs the whole thing he loved putting on the show. We had incredible sex that night too! Something about a group of younger guys gawking at me got him excited
Not turned on but I must say I do enjoy it haha
In my head it's like "yeah I know he is fine" but I know with my ex I had to act a little territorial cause he enjoyed that lol so weird honestly but I think it's pretty funny
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Have you ever noticed that when you finally get a girlfriend, you get more female attention. Women are competitive in nature so when they see that you are desired by other women, they’re like “whats up with this guy?” I know this from experience and asking other women. But things like this, there isn’t a 100% right answer, im just generalizing.
They don't get turned on, they get smug they have something that others want but can't have. It's a different feeling.
I wouldn't be concerned unless I find my partner flirting back with the said ladies.
I won’t say I am turned on by it, but flattered. It means that he is desirable to other women, which makes me feel good since I am the one who is with him.
"The difference between men and women. When a man sees an attractive woman with another guy he says, I got to get me a woman just like her. When a woman sees an attractive man with another woman she says, I got to get HIM"! - Chris Rock 🤣🤣🤣
I agree with @desidoll . I feel flattered knowing I’m the one with my boyfriend even though other girls want him.
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