Why do most girls’ get turned on when other girls are checking out her man?

[Finchie40]

Most guys don’t think like this , we are territorial of a girl we love and admire , we don’t want other men trying to get in her pants , but most girls’ love when another girl checks out her man , I know she is thinking he’s mine and he’s coming home with me. I usually know I am definitely getting laid that night when another girl checks me out or makes comments that I am good looking or attractive, I will smile but I am really smiling cuz I am thanking that girl for Getting me laid lol Do you girls get turned on when you see another girl flirting or making comments about your man? And guys word of advice if that happens, you make love to her that night and fuck her like their is no tomorrow, she won’t be looking at other guys The games girls play is crazy but if you want a loyal girl this is the shit we have to put up with lol

[NathanDavis]

I've lived and lead a very different life and experience...

not once in any of my relationships... we never ever had to discuss "loyalty' and being faithful

it just wasn't even a thought that crossed our minds, being loyal and faithful was a GIVEN, a certain thing, it was there by default, we did not have to "promise or reassure" to one another

our character was enough reassurance that we were both the right kind of people, no games to play... no insecurities to ever worry about stuff like this

[Guy13]

Yeah and the key when the girl gawking happens is to act like it is not uncommon. One does not speak of it but the point of regularity can be made... The Test trap is set. Be attentive but do not try to make her feel secure in herself if she is threatened and disheveled... that's how you want her.-She will feel like she has won the Prize that evening realizing there is "no tomorrow if she doesn't F-that night." ;-)

[forzaissimo]

I don’t but my husband gets turned on when other guys check me out. I’m 42 & in pretty good shape. Anyway this summer I was with my husband of 18 years at the beach and some college age kids maybe early 20s were totally checking me out I was in my thong bikini and my hubby was like all over me hands all of me my butt my boobs the whole thing he loved putting on the show. We had incredible sex that night too! Something about a group of younger guys gawking at me got him excited

[Finchie40]

Your husband wasn’t turned on by those college kids checking you out lol he was groping you and wanting sex with you because he was afraid to lose you and to make it clear to you that you are his girl to those younger guys lol A man is very territorial of a girl he loves and adores , he doesn’t want to picture his girl getting Fucked by other guys , if he does then he doesn’t value her he just likes the convenience of her , don’t let those cuckhold men fool you , No real man wants his girl to be pounded by other guys , A man that loves and values his girl is very protective of her and wants her all to himself , Us men know what other guys are thinking , so that’s why we become very territorial and protective of a girl we love and value , we want her to only want our cock we don’t want to picture her getting fucked by another cock , trust me it’s a huge turn off for men , Most girls will say her man is insecure when really he isn’t , he just knows what other men are thinking , A man wants to feel respected by his girl and feel valued and wanted , he wants her to only have eyes for him , If a girl makes her man feel valued and wanted and loyal he will climb mountains to be with her , if she wants space and says he is insecure and doesn’t trust her he feels unloved and unwanted , and unvalued by her , Most guys keep this shit to themselves because most girl’s are attracted to confidence , he won’t really show his weakness until she starts needing space and distance from him , which will eventually push him to be drawn to someone else

[melanieeeB]

Not turned on but I must say I do enjoy it haha
In my head it's like "yeah I know he is fine" but I know with my ex I had to act a little territorial cause he enjoyed that lol so weird honestly but I think it's pretty funny

[melanieeeB]

Oh but if she does flirt or gets to close I do become low key territorial, just checking out is okay. 'Just look, don't touch' kinda thing

[EvoEyeris]

Have you ever noticed that when you finally get a girlfriend, you get more female attention. Women are competitive in nature so when they see that you are desired by other women, they’re like “whats up with this guy?” I know this from experience and asking other women. But things like this, there isn’t a 100% right answer, im just generalizing.

[fonduegirl]

We all want what we can't have. For some of us, it's the paperback edition of Temper by Layne Fargo, but for others it's some another human being. To each their own.

[fonduegirl]

They don't get turned on, they get smug they have something that others want but can't have. It's a different feeling.

I wouldn't be concerned unless I find my partner flirting back with the said ladies.

[fonduegirl]

And as for territory, I'm sorry to say but most of y'all are just insecure men.

[Finchie40]

No it comes down to respect for each other , Girl’s have a tendency to be hypocrites and not wear her man’s shoes like she expects him to wear hers , You girls always say your man is insecure when really he isn’t , he is protective and territorial, because he knows what other guys are thinking , just like girls know what other girls are thinking , you can’t expect your partner to remove selfishness for you if you can’t do the same for them , you can’t expect
Your partner to prioritize you if
You can’t prioritize them , So it’s nothing to do with insecurities , it comes down to respect for each other , if you can’t wear
Your partners shoes like you expect them to wear yours , your relationship will fail

[fonduegirl]

You seem to hate girls xx

[desidoll]

I won’t say I am turned on by it, but flattered. It means that he is desirable to other women, which makes me feel good since I am the one who is with him.

[Anonymous]

"The difference between men and women. When a man sees an attractive woman with another guy he says, I got to get me a woman just like her. When a woman sees an attractive man with another woman she says, I got to get HIM"! - Chris Rock 🤣🤣🤣

[WhitneySnow]

I agree with @desidoll . I feel flattered knowing I’m the one with my boyfriend even though other girls want him.