Search Results: too late

I’m 40, she’s 39 and both of us spent way too much time navigating the dating world. We’ve both been told since turning 30 to date men 10 to 20 years older. I’ve been more open to it than she was. She’s still not open to it. She’s really pretty so her looks aren’t an issue, but she gets passed over and dumped CONSTANTLY by men our age for younger women and the last time really hurt her.

I started dating a man age 54 last year and have never been happier, and dating him taught me two things: 1.) it’s really true that men like to be a little bit older than their women and 2.) men need to feel lucky to have a woman in order for a relationship to work (my boyfriend and I both know how lucky we are to have each other, but he courted and pursued me like no man my own age ever did). My friend has not accepted this yet, and it’s such a shame because my boyfriend has a friend who is perfect for her. The guy met her one time and has been begging me ever since to set him up with her and he’s been pursuing her nonstop but she won’t give him a chance just because he’s 60. She says the age gap is too big and she won’t date him because he’s 20 years older even though he treats women really well, can give her the life and love she deserves and can also respect all of the wonderful qualities that she has to offer.

That man has outright told me that he wants someone our age. How can I make her see that women our age are better off with men that age?

She said the oldest she’ll date is 50.

Am I right when I say middle aged women in their late 30’s should be dating men in their late 50’s/early 60’s? Is she right that the age gap is too big?

There is a pop up store I want to visit tomorrow but I'm not sure if they will open when the mall opens. I don't want to show up early and not have the store be open cause its hard to get parking on Boxing Day and I don't want to bear the cold winter weather and not buy anything because the store was closed when I went there for a visit. I know if I show up late, a lot of their product will be sold out. I tried buying on their website a few days ago, and they are limiting how much you are allowed to buy, because they have too many customers end not even supply.

Do you most bullies are narcissists? Either that or have some narcissistic traits from a young age?

I think so because after a certain age, if you really find pleasure watching someone having a miserable time and see nothing wrong with it, there is something wrong with the person mindset? I think they're too far gone by then.

It doesn't take 10-20 years later to finally realize what you did was wrong, lol. Not buying it.