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Search Results: ask someone out
I am confused about this guy?
So last year I messaged this guy who I used to work with and see if he is down to catch up since it has been so long. So 2 weeks later he responded and said I'm doing well its so nice to hear from you how's your dog...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it weird im turning 27 and never been in a relationship and still a virgin?
I don’t feel presentable enough to date or like I have my life together. People say 26 is still kind of young but I feel like I should have a hot body and be somewhat experienced already. I feel like if I try to date...
Anonymous
(18-24) You turn someone down for a date, but then a few months later they ask one of your friend's out on a date and they say yes, do you say anything?
Your friend doesn't know that that was the specific person you rejected, they know you rejected someone but they don't know it's this exact person, so do you bring up to them that you rejected them some time ago
Extraterrestrial1999
Yoda Age: 26 Why do so many guys hit the gym shortly after a breakup?
I see it all the time. Everywhere. Whether in person or on social media. There are even "guys after breakup" memes. I'm talking about the guys who never cared to go to gym all this time but soon after breakup, things...
m Looking for some honest male perspectives on a situation that’s been really messing with my head all insights welcome?
I've worked with t his guy for years. We’ve always gotten on well — there’s been natural chemistry, a bit of flirty banter, and a closeness that gradually deepened. Over time, we started messaging more often outside of...
Anonymous
(18-24) What was the best case in person that you've ever seen of someone standing up for someone else?
For me, it was back in middle school. Kind of surprising too as the middle schoolers I went to school with were basically monsters beating up nerdy kids and sexually harassing girls. But either way, this very scrawny...
EzraIsShy76028
Xper 7 Age: 24 How do I stop assuming that I've a crush on someone when I admire their qualities?
It's an irritating habit. I'll explain with examples. At my college there was a senior who was very good at studies, he also was really eloquent and spoke very well in meetings/assemblies. I really admired these skills so...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do people stare at me WAY TOO MUCH?
At this point it's getting creepy, terrifying, and obsessive. I don't know if it has to do with the fact that I dont have a car so I walk everywhere I already get harassed by guys when walking but anytime I go somewhere...
Anonymous
(25-29) My girlfriend blocked me from seeing her instagram stories before we got together. How can I ask her to unblock me now without being awkward?
Alright, this was caused by a nice and stupid situation that I don't really want to go into. The SparkNotes version of the story is that sometime in the months before we started dating, my girlfriend blocked me from...
ProbablyClueless
Guru Age: 33 Ran into my ex with someone new did I go too far?
I’m A few days ago, I unexpectedly ran into my ex at a takeaway. We actually broke up on good terms, and only last week he told me he still loved me and cared about me so seeing him with someone new came as a complete...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was does he want?
Today I dmed my crush (knew he was single) and while talking to told me he leaves with his gal (apparently they got back together) I congratulated him and asked if he has someone nice to set me up with and he answered...
Anonymous
(25-29) He's in a relationship w someone else but doesn't want me to be w anybody?
So I dmed my crush (knew he was single) and while talking to told me he leaves with his gal (apparently they got back together) I congratulated him and asked if he has someone nice to set me up with and he answered "calm...
Anonymous
(25-29) A situationship isn’t love, it’s emotional abuse in disguise…
We live in a time where “it’s complicated” has become a normal relationship status. Where casual hookups are expected, and commitment is seen as pressure. But there’s a painful truth underneath all the mixed signals and...
Are these characteristics of someone who can potentially be cheating?
So I recently saw his ex posted a photo of them acting all cozy at a wedding together (the wedding has the exact date from last Sunday) and this raised my suspicion that there might be cheating going on… I asked him about...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do illegals have due process rights? Are people being deported without trial? Can they be deported without trial? Did Obama deport them without trial?
What I’m asking is, can the government simply say “oh don’t have documents to prove legal residency?” GTFO Or is it a legal requirement that there has to be a trial in court if you want to get someone deported and stuff?...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 Why can't girls say what they think or want?
This post is just me venting. Why do all the girls over Tinder ghost me? If you ask them too early for the coffee, they ghost you. If you ask them too late, they ghost you. If they get bored of you, they ghost you....
TOQGYDL
Xper 5 Age: 25 What does it mean when a girl texts you out of the blue to “check in to see how I was doing and wishes me well.” is she interested/attracted to me?
So I haven’t spoken to this girl in like 7 months or so. We used to work together and she was my manager. Before I left and quit that job, because of family issues, I told her and my GM that I would be back but now I’m...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I ask him to leave me alone or ignore him?
So, I gave this Black guy my number from Wizz because he wanted to text me. He used to flirt with me, but I ignored it because I only saw him as a friend. He would get upset that I liked non-Black guys, and he didn’t seem...
Anonymous
(18-24) Have you ever been really close to someone and you believe everything is fine - they turn on you like a pitbull just for asking them if they're okay?
They said that they were okay, but something seemed different about the person and you could tell, so you asked again if they were okay out of concern, then all of a sudden they turned on you and said that YOU have mental...
Guys, I met a guy on a dating app but he spends more time talking about having sex with me, than getting to know me. What should I do?
I’ve been out of the dating scene for fifteen years now and previously I’ve only had one boyfriend. I am very inexperienced when it comes to love, so if my question comes off silly, well I apologize in advance. Anyway, I...
Anonymous
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