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I have had at least 75 first dates as a result of online dating, and a few were horrible (pictures not current, lied about age, etc.) Most of them weren't that awful, but we just weren't a good match. When I got some experience with rejecting a lady, I eventually decided that the best thing to do was to walk the lady back to her car, no good night kiss, no hug, tell her that I enjoyed meeting her, she seems like a nice lady, but I don't think we're a good match and I wished her good luck with her search. That stopped any expectations from developing and avoided the appearance of misleading her in any way. Maybe that isn't how she wanted to hear that message, but I thought it was better than taking the easy way out by texting or simply not calling her again.

If you were the lady on one of those first dates, how and when would you want that message conveyed to you? If you were the guy, how do you think that message should be delivered?

(Yes, I know that it isn't entirely up to me to decide whether to have a second date; a woman can reject me after the first date, and I have had that experience. I'm just asking about this from a guy's perspective. If you want to ask about how a girl should reject a guy, you can post your own question.)

The nerd: reads tons of books and talks about video games and movies. isn't very masculine. Kind of awkward but sweet.

The chad: hyper masculine. Tall with a large strong structure. Square jaw. Is into traditional masculine things such as sports, cars, and drinking with his buddies. Highly successful in his career. Has a high body count with lots of dating options.

The boy next door: nice looking, but more in an endearing, rather than sexually kind of way. Not tall, not short. Has long dark hair. Is kind and a bit mysterious. Genuine. He works carpentry and has a passion for custom woodworking, has a love for coffee, nature, and hanging with his dog.

The beta: the nice guy who you are not very attracted to but feel safe with. He gives you emotional support and cherishes the ground you step on. He's financially stable and don't worry about him cheating.

The sugar daddy: the old rich guy who you exchange sex for money. Purely transactional. He travels you around the world, takes you to the finest restaurants in the city and buys you nice things.

The starving artist: could be a sculptor, a guitarist, an actor, etc. Has talent but yet to be discovered big time. He is interesting and fun, but broke. He works a low wage job while hoping for his future. You have feelings for him, but have uncertainty.

So you are up for dating and find girls with bios, that say stuff like

"Only guys, who are 6 feet/1.80m" or "Only blonde guys" or "only blue eyes guys" or "only nationality/race (fill in the blank)" or "only guys with a car" or or or.

And you happen to match these.

Would you talk to such a girl? Would you make such a girl your girlfriend?

I wouldn't.