In the family/like a sister zone yet find there is something there. How should I Proceed?

Anonymous

I grew up with this guy my best friend is his sister. I never cared or found him attractive Yet this year my feelings have changed for him

Working on divorce, 2 young children and over works. He has become a good man of good Character.

Scattered throughout this year friends from a different friend circles including his family have all asked if there was something there to him and I. I was afflicted it because I never thought about it I just said he was like a brother to me a family friend and he the same. But as I was suddenly getting a lot more alone time with him we started this new ritual that was never there before where he would massage my feet for an hour and a half caress my hair as I play with his, They each other’s head on each other’s lap and just initiating left and right. Weather if I go to the park with his kids or out and about I had friends say he just looks at me with such respect and smitten.

Recently I feel like I have been transitioning and well out of my way out of the sister zone. He’s opening doors in car doors for me now making sure I’m not help carrying anything heavy and so I’ve been out for something light, He remembers all my little quirks and things I say and point them out, We had become super playful with each other more than we have ever had before yes Recently a friend that poked him with his elbow and ask him what do you think of June. The guy I liked said I was family. My heart when blue but later that day he stopped by when he didn’t have to when he was my car in his sisters driveway. A girl that knew nothing about us pointed out how she loved watching him just looking at me I’m such a look. She told me that he was just smiling as I was interacting with his children. Watching me as I move about the yard with a smitten look. I’m genuinely confused on how I should feel and move about. I’m getting to the point where I just need to be over with it but don’t know how to express it.

In the family/like a sister zone yet find there is something there. How should I Proceed?
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