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Employers continually say they want candidates with "soft skills" as the "hard skills" will be readily apparent and presumed from college / military / apprenticeship / internship experience.

In my experience, the "INTER-personal skills" are:
1) Coachable to a degree
2) Improve w/ experience
3) Result from BOTH internal AND external factors / influences

IMHO, the "INTRA-personal skills are the most important, most elusive and most difficult to quantify. More to the point, you have them or you don't. There's no faking it or experiences that can teach you them. The qualities listed are innate and fixed.

I would even add some more innate ADVANTAGES (NOT SKILLS) like charm, humor, self-deprecation, good looks, ability to read the room, small talk, wit, excellent memory, selflessness, diverse interests, fashion sense, complimentary, etc.

Given all this, we've been asked to interview two candidates for the job of POTUS.

Which candidate has the better package of INTRA-PERSONAL skills?

Which candidate has more / better soft skills among the ones I listed in 4th paragraph?

Now the hard part, can you PLEASE GIVE REAL CONCRETE EXAMPLES OF YOUR CHOSEN CANDIDATE DISPLAYING THOSE QUALITIES. ACTUAL EVENTS & CIRCUMSTANCES!! The more examples of more qualities would be very helpful to me! KEEP IT POSITIVE!! NO NEGATIVITY!!

For you young uns, I'll explain what MS Office is in the update!

Christ said if your eye offend you, pluck it out. Seek the truth at all costs, you will find it.

Odin actually gave up an eye for wisdom in his mythology, in return, he got two ravens that would search the world for him. who gave him the ravens? Odin was chief God. in the Nordic myth, there is the logos spoken of by John / Jesus, that rewards you for good behavior, even rewarding the gods.

it's also just a crazy metaphor for science. which "coincidentally" developed in the same nations.

"philosophy has gone astray. natural philosophy must use new technology to hone our eyesight, meticulous data to fix our memory, and limit fanciful extrapolations. we need to become more honest and more stupid to learn what is true." Robert Hooke, 1660, discovered and drew the first cells under a microscope

More importantly, what do you think would fix it? Or if it even matters?
It's really difficult for many people to feel financially stable enough for it. And then on top of that, you're telling me I have to have sex with someone? Get real. I struggle to even take care of myself from rampant depression, and I'm sure others do, too. Having kids is a massive ask. More power to the people who don't mind doing it, or are able to, of course. But I've given up on the idea, the buck stops here for my bloodline. Are we screwed? Did modern society evolve too fast for us all?

Teens like myself think of themselves with permanent traits (e. g. I am unconfident or he is always more funny than me).

What’s the adult way of seeing a romantic partner? Do you label people less, and think everyone is capable of doing anything?

E. g., this guy’s hot but isn't confident, he’s still really attractive and his lack of confidence can be fixed.