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How do I deal with my boyfriend who is sometimes financially dependent on me?

My boyfriend is very caring and helps me whenever I'm sick which is often. He gives me a massage when I'm not feeling well. He makes my coffee, cooks for us when I buy fresh food but the problem is he has no fixed job, relies on being an agent in auto sales and prefers not to work because he wants to succeed in business.

I earn decent so I do pay for our dates. In fairness to him, he prefers to be at home so I'm the one who drags him out and pays for dates and travels. Lately, he also asks for load or small amounts but not that often. He did it like 4 times already.

He has mentioned to me that he wants to work already but suddenly when he got a small amount from the auto sales, he held off on the job and continued to work still with auto sales. The problem with this is that it's commission basis and most of his buyers negotiate so his commissions become very small in amount.

When I sleep on his house, I end up paying for dinner and then for breakfast, sometimes lunch as well. Whenever we are not together, he doesn't eat much. He just eats biscuits.

Lately, we are though planning to lose weight so I'll have a reason for us to eat lesser and just eat oatmeal and not have much food to eat. He is not really lavish in lifestyle and does love me a lot and takes care of me so I'm confuse on what to do. So basically he is like the woman in the relationship. I do have anxiety issues and many mental issues so having his care and love really helps me to become sane.

How do I deal with my boyfriend who is sometimes financially dependent on me?
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