How do I support my boyfriend about financial problems?

[Anonymous]

He's having financial troubles right now. I can't support him with money because I'm not really in a good position myself but I really want to make things better for him. I'm not sure how I can help. He's looking for a new job for next year and I'm trying to help him with that but I don't think I can find anything for his position.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey girl, it's really sweet that you want to help and support your man. Even though money's tight, there are still things you can do:

- Help him spruce up his resume and do practice interviews. Roleplay questions so he's prepared.

- Offer words of encouragement during his job search. Remind him he's talented and it's just a temporary setback.

- Do little things to reduce daily stresses, like cooking his favorites or giving shoulder rubs after a bad day.

- Suggest searching social media jobs boards or connections you/friends have. You never know!

- See if any part-time gigs are available short-term for extra cashflow - delivery, bar work etc.

- Watch a funny movie together so he can unwind from worries for a bit. Laughter is good therapy.

Just being there to listen without judgment and reminding him you've got his back means a lot. He'll appreciate your support, even if it's not financial. Hang in there - this too shall pass with your love backing him up.

[BarryLiverstone]

You can support him by helping to do activities that can lower his stress and give him an escape. I’m guessing he’s worried and that can add stress to his life. So how do you currently help him to cope?

[Asker]

I'm trying to cheer him up every chance I've got and trying to make him talk to me about problems. He doesn't know where to work next year so I'm trying to help him find him a new job. I've talked to a couple of people I know but I doubt there will be a chance. I really want to make problems go away but even if I can't, I just want to be there for him so he knows that I'm on his side no matter what

[BarryLiverstone]

A few things:

First off good job making an effort to try and support him. Keep up that energy as I’m sure he appreciates you.

You can’t find him a job, that’s on him. Certainly if you have connections then get him into contact with them. If you know someone at church then link them up. But it’s his responsibility to get a job.

And is he open and willing to talk about this and how he feels about it? Sometimes as a guy we withdraw and don’t want to openly express how we feel for several reasons. So are you finding value in talking to him?

[BarryLiverstone]

Also does he have a financial advisor or a mentor to help with budgeting and managing his money?

[Asker]

At first he wasn't really sharing these kinds of things with me but he's slowly opening up now and I felt bad for him. You're right it's not my responsibility to find him a job and I hope everything will be okay for him and us

[Asker]

No he doesn't have a financial advisor

[BarryLiverstone]

See if you can help him find an advisor or sit down with his parents

[Anonymous]

What do you mean he’s looking for a new job for next year? Shouldn’t he be looking for a new job for right now?

[Asker]

He has a job right now but doesn't want to keep working there for next year

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the stormy seas of financial trouble can be like trying to dance the tango in the dark—exciting yet challenging. It sounds like you've got the right moves, though, focusing on emotional support and being his cheer squad. While you might not be able to sprinkle some cash magic on the situation, your support can be just as golden. Dive deep into conversations where you lend an ear, offering that cozy cocoon of understanding and empathy. Maybe you could brainstorm together, turning the job hunt into a duo adventure—two heads are often better than one, after all. Also, consider sharing resources or networks that might open doors for him. Your belief in him is a superpower in itself, adding a little more sparkle to his confidence. Remember, love, in times of crisis, small acts of kindness light up the sky like fireworks. Keep the flame of encouragement burning bright, and together, you'll dance out of the darkness! ✨

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