What to do when my boyfriend stop supporting me financially?

[Cathy12]

I have been with him over 3 years and before we got in a relationship we made a deal that he will support me financially every month, I love him so much but not much enough to deal with his BS. If he didn’t give me money I swear I wouldn’t be with him this long. He lied , cheated and abused me. But I stayed with him cuz financially support. Now he said he won’t support me financially anymore, should I just leave or stay? I love him but I’m not sure if I can stay because of how he treated me whole relationship. It must sound like a sugar baby sugar daddy things but we do have normal relationship.

[Darine123]

Dump him, it maybe sounds selfish that you break up with him cuz he doesn’t give you money anymore. But Are you really willing to go through cheat, lies and abuse? We in similar situations. No matter how much you love him or how much money he gave you there’s another guys who will love you more and give you more , you just haven’t found one more. If he gon let you starve cuz you have no money then he ain’t that into you anymore. He gave you a lot of money before because it’s a lust but real love appear after lust

[LazerBean]

Do the mature thing and get rid of losers in your life (which includes him) and support yourself like an adult. And in the future don't put yourself in a position where you're dependent on someone who has no provable, legitimate commitment to you.

[inhua]

when you choose to go after someone due to something shallow i. e. looks, money, status etc. should you be surprised he's also the same in return?

there's nothing wrong with being with a guy for money but if his inside is rotten why stay with him? is there really a shortage of other guys out there with money who would treat you right? then again, those guys are probably get taken advantage of but someone who should be loving them.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

He's a piece of shit but you are also one for staying with someone and caring for money.

What do you expect people to tell you? You don't love him, you love money. Get away and fix your terrible values and views in life. Good luck!

[Cathy12]

Thank you , but I actually could leave him easily but I still love him

[YourFavoriteFriend]

You don't "love him", LMAO!

[Guy13]

It seems you loved money over relationship. His behavior is typical Narcissist or Sociopath. Controlling in every way and really showing no remorse…

[boggboss]

U literally just said u wouldn't be with him if he didn't give u money why pretend that u love him this is a situation u stay in out of being comftble not love

[Cathy12]

But the Love feeling is real for me

[boggboss]

No its not

[Noahzaid]

That’s for you to judge not some g@g users.

this is something completely personal and would likely make you homeless for a while so think things through before doing anything.

[Agape93]

POV: Your a guy pretending to be a woman, to make it look like women are gold diggers.

What a dumbass troll job.

[ChillaxingLove]

Leave him don’t let anyone treat you like trash. Find a job and move out. Better to be happy poor then poor and miserable

[Cathy12]

It’s really hard to find a job n I never worked at all but I’ll try to find a job

[Mtbgirl]

Are you serious? This has to be a joke. If not clearly you were only in it for the money. Your boyfriend is smart to put a stop to that. How about you get a job to earn your own money.

[Oigit]

Do the something everyone should become self sufficient.

[FilmGuy93]

How is this a question? Lol you should have left a long time ago.

[TheFlak38]

Think about the thousands of nice men you friend zoned just to be with this asshole.

[Anonymous]

By the sound of it, you've already made the decision. Perhaps you're here to understand why.

[Anonymous]

that's what you get for being a gold digger and you deserve all of it's consequences 🙂🙂🙂

[TacosRAwesome]

Leave. He broke the deal.