Search Results: how to get guys to approach me

Guys, Gym guy checking me out or not?

Whenever I go to gym, I find myself looking for him. And when he's there, sometimes he'd try to workout/exercise beside me, but not always though. And we sometimes have eye-to-eye contact for like 2-3 seconds. I get too...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, I recently noticed that this guy at the gym is staring at me. We sometimes catch each other's eyes. But he never try to approach me though?

It's been a month maybe and whenever I go to gym, I find myself looking for him. Then when he's there, sometimes he'd try to workout/exercise beside me, but not always though. And we sometimes have eye-to-eye contact for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did he stop paying attention to me?

There was this guy I used to like a lot and he'd always ask how i'm doing and hows working because he was in a similar project to mine so he knew the workload and how stressful it could get and that's something we'd...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I tell a guy I don't really talk to that I have a crush on him?

ok so there's this guy in my school, Jarod, he's 1 year ahead of me and we don't really have friends that are in the same friend circle (we have a couple in common but they aren't good enough friends that it would let us...

grunge_bunni

Xper 1 Age: 19

Girl's Behavior

Is she into me, Im receiving mixed signs?

There's a girl I like at work. She seems very shy and I've tried to establish some communication with her. I've seen her talk to other guys like nothing even joking and laughing. With me she is different, get nervous when...

cluelessforlove

Xper 5 Age: 41

Do you think he cares?

This guy from the gym & I kept making plans to hook up but he basically flaked on me a few times, we talk dirty when he's turned on he makes plans but then he doesn't see me. I basically started to leave his messages on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why guys stare at me but don’t approach me and ask to be my boyfriend?

I shop alone at stores, markets , do errands alone as I have no boyfriend, and I see all girls with bfs doing errands or buying market together. The few guys that are alone I see stare at me but don’t approach me at all....

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean when a guy says this?

I’ve been talking to this guy since mid June and I noticed we have some things in common. Also because of recent and past trauma with guys I’m being more cautious a-swell as being careful of what I say. We started talking...

Anonymous

(18-24)

If I'm beautiful, then why don't any guys check me out or approach me?

I get called beautiful by my old neighbors in their 40-50s. My parents call me beautiful. My coworker calls me beautiful but Guys don't ever check me out. Guys never hit on me. Only creeps or weirdos hit on me- maybe once...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I whore around?

Real question I recently did something I've never done before and went to a hotel with some guy after a rock concert and it was the best night of my entire life lol I know men like me but I'm shy and antisocial. This guy...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this married guy just being friendly to me or he has something else in his mind bc I am honestly very confused where this work relationship going?

Signs is he will always greet me in the mornings wish either heyy Diana and sometimes a fist bump or if I’m standing in a group of females he will approach and fist bump everyone including me, or one time I was doing...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

I’m very upset about myself tbh, I am craving to be in a meaningful relationship yet I always get led on or approached by married or unavailable man?

For instance I literally made myself a promise that I am not even going to waist no more time with man in general if I’ll most likely not gonna work, no numbers nothing, month passed by and a new handsome guy comes to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does she like me? What signs give away she is not interested?

There is a coworker that I have been crushing on for the last few months. We have been talking for a couple of months now. I began to get to know her better and that's when I started crushing on her. So, I decided to...

20thGreatRomances

Xper 4 Age: 37

Guys, Do you not approach girls in case you get viewed as creepy, weird and/or predatory by them?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, Has a Guy you haven't met yet ever got your number by Approaching you in Public before?

Can you tell me how he did it?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys how common is it for a woman to walk up to you?

women how often do you get approached by guys? and of course im speaking about with interest lol

MementoMori777

Guru Age: 25

Why do most guys find short and average height women more attractive and feminine than us tall woman?

I never understood what the fuss is all about with petite women. Also average height women. It triggers me when petite and average height women wanna be taller and intimidating. Tall women get so much shit, criticized and...

AutisticLonelyWoman

Xper 4 Age: 23

Is joining the boxing gym a good way to meet guys?

I walk by this kickboxing gym every time I go home. I see guys punching bags through the window. The gym is literally 90% male. I've seen some pretty fit hot guys come outta there. I've always had a difficult time meeting...

Anonymous

(25-29)