Is she into me, Im receiving mixed signs?

[cluelessforlove]

There's a girl I like at work. She seems very shy and I've tried to establish some communication with her. I've seen her talk to other guys like nothing even joking and laughing. With me she is different, get nervous when I approach her, and our chats are small and mostly questions. The other day she went to ask for some material to my department and she was talking to my mate, I approach them and he told her I was behind her and she said "oh no, not him", the guy told her I'm a ghost cause she didn't notice I was behind her and she said "yes he is" and immediately said to me "no, I'm not serious". I felt that as a rejection, as if she was looking the other guy to handle her the material she needed. So I don't know what to think, I really suck when it comes to understand women behaviour.

[Curmudgeon]

If this is a career type occupation for you, DON'T pursue this further. You are only asking for trouble.

[cluelessforlove]

Can you explain why?

[Curmudgeon]

@cluelessforlove A false sexual harassment accusation will ruin your career. Need I say more? Even if it never comes to that, if the relationship attempt fails or does not work out, you are stuck working with her. This is why people go on those computer dating apps and sites, after all.

[29b8s3]

Never. NEVER EVER purse a relationship in a work setting. Please do not. It's not good to mix work and romance together. Find someone outside of work.

[cluelessforlove]

There's a few couples working there. Also some of them met their significan other there while working. Not sure why the negative feedback lol