I’m very upset about myself tbh, I am craving to be in a meaningful relationship yet I always get led on or approached by married or unavailable man?

[Anonymous]

For instance I literally made myself a promise that I am not even going to waist no more time with man in general if I’ll most likely not gonna work, no numbers nothing, month passed by and a new handsome guy comes to work with us/me and from day one he just slowly but surely tried to get my attention kindly and mentioned that he just wants to be friends and than little by little he kinda started flirting etc and he is married! Basically he led me on slowly and I tried pushing him away but he was always there for me when I really was having rough days etc so it was hard ti just quit talking to him bc he is very nice guy and I’m a kinda girl that don’t like hurting people so I feel like it’s rude to just ignore someone when they try to initiate with me, anyway my question is why the freak do I always usually get approached by married or unavailable man like am I that unworthy to be in a decent relationship with a nice single guy who can give me attention instead of married guys ugh

[GreatBigCircles]

If it's something has has happened consistently, changing the place you're going to meet new people, and changing what you're looking for, might change things.

It can also be a great opportunity to get into a new hobby or try things you normally wouldn't.

[normalice]

Probably, availible men just aren't approaching anyone anymore. That's why they are still availible. i think the internet has clipped a lot of wings in that regard and now huge masses of men just plain don't know how to talk to women unless it's online.

[sheikalana]

Sometimes it takes time and a lot of trial and error to find someone decent. Is not your fault. Learn from these experiences and don't give up one day you'll find someone that matches your wants and needs.

[FunkyMonkee]

TELL ME ABOUT IT!! Nearly EVERY Girl I've had something more than friendship with was either married or spoken for, at the time!! I can't understand why I'm "the bitch magnet" (as my singer put it) for married chicks but single girls won't look at me twice!! What is it about me that ONLY interested married girls?

[Anonymous]

It could be that said men are just being nice? And they have no problem being friendly with you because they have no intention of getting with you.

That or you seem like the type of girl who would be fun to cheat with, but single men have no interest in dating you. But they'd still want to sleep with you if that were the case, so I don't think that's it

[MementoMori777]

just randomly i guess, dont give up tho, im sure someone available will find you

[Asker]

It’s more often than randomly lately

[MementoMori777]

well at some point you'll run into someone that isn't married, its only a matter of time

[JoeMichael67]

You're first problem is that you're craving a relationship. You need to learn to enjoy your own company. If the right guy comes along eventually then roll with it.