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30F either DA or FA, want to say I’m some kind of avoidant. Based on life experiences, are these pretty tell tale signs I’m probably…well not attractive? I’ve always questioned how almost every pretty woman I’ve come across is always in a relationship with an equally attractive guy. When I was chubby younger, I thought losing weight would solve everything and it hasn’t. I feel like regardless of what anyone else says, I’ll always wholeheartedly believe attractive women have no issue finding a partner & they have life easier. I’ve been told I’m attractive by a variety of people for most of my life, even when I was chubby. I’m not thin, 5’7 women’s US 10 so midsize but I have that thicker thigh/flatter stomach build. The only time I get attention from guys I find attractive are on dating apps and that’s not telling in my opinion. I’ve been told this guy looked at me/this guy found me attractive from other people but the guy never makes it known to me. And there’s been very very few times where I would see an attractive guy making eye contact with me or at least caught my gaze but I just look away b/c I don’t see the point. I’m anxious/reserved but a lot of people with anxiety are in fulfilling relationships.

Last thing I’ll add was being bullied pretty badly as a kid, again I was chubby so I know this played a part. Worse in middle school, I didn’t have to be homeschooled but it still sucked really freaking bad. And in HS but not as extreme as middle school, HS was more mean girls if anything. As an adult at old jobs, I did have confrontation/clashing w/personalities too. And let’s not forget shit bosses. Since I’ve worked remotely for the past few years, I haven’t had drama with coworkers or mgmt. Let’s hope it stays that way, I’ve had to deal with toxic family members too but that’s a thing of the past.

I’M SO CONVINCED THESE THINGS DON’T HAPPEN TO ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE

Between the years 2013- 2018 the Sisterhood stood strong, we tackled and almost defeated Men as a whole. We stood in unity and backed each other up. Even when we knew our fellow sustas were wrong we stood by them... Fast forward to 2024!

The Sisterhood lead to The Hefor she Male tears, me too, and many more.. (Utopian Bullshit)

"Hey girls! Let's get real for a sec... Why do we still claim to be all about sisterhood when, honestly, we often can't seem to get along? We're constantly comparing and competing with each other, and then suddenly, when the guys come into the picture, we're like, 'Sisterhood united!' But are we really?
Can we truly say we support and uplift each other, or are we just putting on a united front to face the world? Let's have a real conversation about this. Are we genuinely standing together, or is it just a facade?"
Or, if you'd like a version with an even more playful and sassy tone:
"Girlies, let's spill the tea! We preach sisterhood, but do we really practice it? We're always throwing shade, competing for attention, and trying to one-up each other. But the minute the guys come for us, we're suddenly BFFs, right?
So, what's the real deal? Are we genuinely about that sisterhood life, or just playing the game? Let's dish, ladies!"