Do men ever lead women on deliberately?

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I mean, do men older than their younger adult years, ever deliberately come onto women in whom they have no interest whatsoever, just because they enjoy flirting, the attention they get from women in general, or for ulterior motives, like revenge or other mind games?

Orion84 · Accepted Answer

I'm sure that, just like with anything else, there are probably some men that do that, sure. I would say that the majority of us don't, though.

bowenw · Accepted Answer

From my observations, they do it for sex.

MisterWack · Answer

“because they enjoy flirting, the attention they get from women in general, or for ulterior motives, like revenge or other mind games?”

Yeah, a lot of weirdos do that. This one lesbian woman would flirt with straight guys at the bars and have a one sided connection just to flirt, get attention, and it was a sexual thrill. She’d get their number then would toss it away…. So I can definitely see men who act like this towards women (not saying gay men, I mean all men are capable same thing with all women are capable of this)

One bad produce doesn’t ruin the whole bunch however it is plausible that there are some getting a thrill out of it since I’ve witnessed it.

Miristheiss · Answer

Maybe I would have been up for that at times.

I could have found a woman very attractive. I could have bee initially very drawn to her and possibly we are clicking a bit and having some chemistry. I kind of "want" her. Then I find out something that clearly disqualifies her from being long term or wife material.

She has tattoos. She has some extreme piercings. I find out she is promiscuous. I immediately know this is going no where long term. But, I already want her. Do I walk away clean or stay a bit just to have a little fun before eventually moving on? That is the question. Ideally, I always just wanted her to be a good long term fit, have similar values, not be promiscuous, not have tattoos and piercings but those women are rare. That is why finding a wife isn't always easy.

NathanOlipop · Answer

Yes, they definitely do. Statistically three women will likely end up dating the same guy and not knowing it. I know a guy who did just that. The reason for this is because women will only date the people accepted socially by their friends, which is likely going to be the same people since it's clearly not everyone, and many social groups will lean toward that same person as well. Because of this, men that can pull one girl can pull three girls. This is why women have more problems later on than men with relationships, because women normally end up losing their emotional investment in the same guy the other women ended up with. On that note, at least women are more likely to be in a relationship than men, if you would call it that.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I don’t know. I’m still basically a young adult. But in my experience when a guy flirts with you he either really likes you or just wants to have sex with you.

JHAYES317 · Answer

I wouldn’t get into a relationship with a woman I didn’t see a future with, but I might go on a few dates with a woman I’m on the fence about…

But no, I wouldn’t go on even one date with a woman if she had literally zero appeal to me…

Radiate143 · Answer

Absolutely! A lot of guys are straight up predators. Not Ted Bundy but not nice people either.

Kayleigh2005 · Answer

Only men online and only the one's that deserve it !

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I'm sure it happens, but the vast majority of guys can't pull enough girls to really think like that.

slatyb · Answer

Of course they do. People use other people all the time.

Nikki1989 · Answer

They constantly do it, they enjoy the attention and validation.

jahaims · Answer

Yeah the same way females do and for the same reasons

CB-Raido-Time · Answer

That would be a very thoughtless and dumb thing.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I'm sure some do, but it's frowned upon by other men.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Yeah, a lot of us enjoy some harmless flirting.

sawno · Answer

Never no, I am pure with my intent.

Nerdvana · Answer

Not always, but only when we are awake.

AmeerX · Answer

I don't lead women on. I do what I say.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Selfish ones do.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

On what?

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Yes and vice versa.

Ladsin2 · Answer

Clearly, for attention or resources.

Anonymous · Answer

It happens, but women do it far more often.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

No, that’s women who do that to men

eagle1951 · Answer

guessing we do

Intheclouds00 · Answer

Yes.

In_Trance · Answer

Of course they do

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