Why do men lead women on?

[lovelylife]

Okay I know it's a two why street and some girls do this to. I for one have never done this. I think it's really mean and can be very hurtful especially if the other party is interested because they thought it was mutual. Guys if your not interested in a girl or are in a serious relation maybe engaged or married. Why would you lead a girl on? Why would you act like your interested in her. And for a long period of time not someone you just met, and casually flirted with for a few days I'm talking Months or even years. What do you get out of it? Answer my poll and please elaborate. Thanking you in advance.

Ego boost

Your not happy with your partner

It's fun and you don't care how it comes across as long as your happy

Other

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Prolly cause they just want sex, but they don't want a relationship, so they lead on for sex, but don't commit. So many women are stupid enough to let themselves get lead on though and give it up instead of making sure of their intentions:\ both genders suck lol.

But ya, sure not every guy and not every girl is like that, but a lot do. :|

[lovelylife]

Damn, I forgot to add sex to the poll. Yeah I would say that's would have been, the highest percentage.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

lol I told the truth, another guy must be mad I did :P

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

As you said, it's a two way street. But from my experiences and observations; it is MUCH more common to see a girl flirting with no intention of following through than to see a guy doing the very same thing.

As for why people would do it? A sense of manipulation or control I assume.

[livewire73]

Interesting you said 'it is MUCH more common to see a girl flirting with no intention of following through than to see a guy doing the very same thing.'

A guy is doing this with me now and I've been trying to figure out if he wants sex of he wants something more...I'm guessing he wants sex then right?

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

For guys sex is always a background factor. Even if they're pursuing a relationship. If you want to get answers relevant to your situation make a question with details, examples and plenty of explanation.

[lovelylife]

Livewire73- I hope your situation got better! This damn married man is still staring at me and as soon as I look at him he turns away! I've ignored him and I try to avoid him, but I don't know what he's problem is! Shit... I wish I could just walk up to him and say! WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU? Smh.

[Anonymous]

To get laid! If a woman is interested in a man and has feelings for him, she is more vulnerable to him and is more likely to do what he wants. Also it could just be an ego boost and flirting for fun for him

[lovelylife]

I think your right as much as, I hate to admit it. It's always about sex. I didn't really want to except that even guys that are in a relationship would do these things, but they do. It's happening to me now. This guy flirts with me and stares at me when ever I'm around, but I just found out he's married. This has been going on for almost a year. I feel real stupid. I thought only young guys did this not grown ass men.

[gummybear888]

because they think they can get away with it and just in case the new girl doesn't work out, he'll have someone to fall back on. I'm not agreeing with this but this has happened to a few friends of mine.

[BeachTiffany]

wow! that is the greatest question of all time. men can be ridiculous! I have no clue :)

[lovelylife]

Lol. I'm still scratching my head over it. I have no clue other then some people are just f***ed up. But I still love em. I guess that makes me a f***ed up lover.

[palek]

You apparently have no sense of humor, but I suppose we're all different. Personally, I can think of nothing more delightful than dating a woman for several years and constantly professing my love and respect for her. After waiting for just the right moment and asking her to marry me, and after she introduces me to all her friends and family as her fiance, I just go on a bender and disappear! Hahahaha! You're just too serious. Lighten up and have some fun! Any plans for the weekend?

[lovelylife]

Wow your hysterical.

[palek]

Well, I'm an only child, so I'm pretty good at makin my own fun. ; - )

[Mesonfielde]

wtf? xD

[palek]

; - )

[lv4lv]

"Men" <- Generalizing. Quit it. Seriously. It *is* a two way street. Some guys do it. Not every single damn one of us. There's about 6.5 billion men in the world. When you say "men" you talk about every single one of them. You're not helping anyone by creating a bias. Look at your poll answers. Not even one considers someone wouldn't do that. Seriously?

To answer your question: I wouldn't.

[lovelylife]

Your right I know all men don't do this. My mistake I've should've just said " grown ass man" haha. I was just venting.

It never happen to me before so I know it's not the norm. I think I was just shocked that a grown man would do that.

[Anonymous]

Honestly you need to look at the other side of the road sweetie. There are women out there that date men simply because they have nothing better to do, plus to get a free meal. Guys are hunters, hunters don't lead prey on.

[lovelylife]

No hunters do lead there prey, that's how they catch it. But that's really not what were talking about.

[arashmenalagha]

it makes things interesting, isn't that how you've always wanted it?