As a young woman, it is blatantly obvious that men of all ages have a hard time taking accountability for anything. I talk to my friends all the time and we all notice how men would rather blame women for everything that happens to them and to women, rather than calling themselves or other men out. This is especially true when it comes to relationships and sex. A woman was raped or abused? "Maybe she shouldn't have been dressing like that or she must of done something to lead him on". A woman got treated badly by a guy? "She should of chosen better" (often times this is said with little to no knowledge about how these men are like behind closed doors but under the assumption that all men are upfront and honest about who they are in the very beginning of relationships). It's always women's fault and never talked about how a lot of men, i'd argue at least half, are just very shitty people. Now we see men today complaining about the modern dating scene while they simultaneously push that they want women to be submissive and play the traditional woman's role (and in current society women have to do 50% of the providing for a family to stay afloat) while these men do 50% of their traditional male role of providing and protecting. You can't want a traditional submissive woman if you're not being a traditional male. And then blame women and "feminism" because you can't half ass relationships by putting in the bare minimum while also expecting maximum reward.
Men take no accountability about anything and will constantly pin issues on everyone else but them. It seems to be really relevant now as men's mental health stats continue to worsen and they blame women for prioritizing try to be stable in life and her career before settling down and starting a family. Now it's women's fault why men's mental health is declining because they can't have relationships and sex simply for existing like they want.
As a young woman, what are truly benefits of marrying a man today?
