IIs a little bit of jealousy ok?

[Anonymous]

This guy I've been with for a couple months let me go because I was "too jealous".

Last night, he was telling me randomly "Girls have been hitting me up! This girl I went to school with is married but she wants to talk to me." I didn't like that at all... I didn't like the last one the most just because I know how insecure women are stuck in bad marriages. They seek attention from men. For him to say too, "I wanna be there for her." Raised some red flags. I didn't have time to explain how I thought that was inappropriate because the call got cut off.

I called him later and said calmly, "Hey, I just wanted to say I don't want to hear that other women are trying to get with you when we're trying to grow together. I am a little jealous I'm not going to lie " he stopped talking to me. After a day I told him that I'd like to talk and solve the issue. He said "I can't do the jealousy.." It hurt a lot.

[spartan55]

Man fuck that guy! He can't do jealousy? So he said something to obviously get a negative reaction from you... what an absolute fuckhead.
Cut your losses and move on.

[Asker]

Im gonna move on! He's a gaslighter

[spartan55]

Smart decision.

[slatyb]

He's telling you that he doesn't care about your feelings. Of course it hurts. He's not telling you these things on a way that leaves you feeling secure. This is unkind.

[Nikki1989]

It sounds like he is just pushing your buttons. Ignore it.

[moneymagnet24]

Real men make other girl's jealous from his lady..🥺

[Danny_dan92]

Jealousy is a normal human emotion.




It’s only healthy on how you act on it

[Asker]

I said it so calmly. "I'm a little jealous. I know how some women are."

[Emmytexrex]

Yeah you are a human being it's part of our emotions but don't let it control you
And it stems from not trusting our partner so well