Is it okayto be jealous?

[Anonymous]

I like this guy who has a girlfriend. We are amazing friends and have been through a lot with each other. This girlfriend is long term and has never been fond of me. I talk to the guy all the time see him a lot and do a lot of sexual things together. Sometimes it feels being led on even though I know he is not interested. Is it normal to get jealous whenever he does something with him girlfriend and goes away for a night but never considered doing that with me?

[dynamicyandere]

It’s normal to feel jealousy when someone you’re attracted to is giving someone special attention that they aren’t giving you—especially when it comes to romantic gestures and activities.


So feeling jealousy is normal.


BUT, you’re the other woman in an affair right now, so you shouldn’t even be in this situation to begin with.


So it’s normal to feel jealous.


But, it’s NOT okay to be in this situation.


In other words, your feelings of jealousy are understandable, but not justified—because this guy’s girlfriend has more of a right to do activities with her boyfriend than you do.

[Avicenna]

It's not healthy for you to be jealous of them. She's his girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

So you know he has a long term girlfriend yet you still choose to do sexual things with him?


Karma is going to come for you honey…. I don’t know how soon it will come…. but it will come.

[WhitneySnow]

Stop doing sexual stuff with him

[Iron_Man]

He already has a girlfriend