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There was a male poster that was enabling the behavior of using older women (ages 30+) for sex and dump her later on because they wasted their years. He was asking if it was fun using older women for sex and dumping/ghosting them afterwards. Another guy went even deeper; he claimed to have no problem having sex and going after an older, wealthy woman for her money.

Or others that think just because a woman had a high sexual past but was later on looking for love, that she deserved to continue being used for sex and ghosted afterwards. That's just as awful as the gold-diggers leaving the guy penniless.

Aren't those the traits of narcissists and/or sociopaths. That's already a total disregard for a human being, a person with feeling and their own desires regardless of their past, age, etc. Lack of regard for a human and no remorse is a sociopath.

For the record we have NOT had sex. But he has NO issues sexting whatsoever.

However when I ask him to do a simple request - text to let me know if you're staying late at work so I don't think you got in a car accident or something - he can't do this.

3 times.

I even came up with a simple code game - like want fudge, yes / no (he likes fudge) - so he doesn't have to really think about his response if late & he still can't do it.

I understand working late, exhausted, etc and maybe rushing around.

I work in medical during COVID I oftentimes didn't have time to eat and yet I'd check my phone briefly even if in the washroom in case something happened with family (parents, brother).

And it's like he says one thing but his actions say very differently.