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We’re currently in a dating app era & the idea behind dating apps seems practical yet you hear more bad than good things about them. Almost 30 & I’ve never been in a LTR, I have accomplished everything I currently want out of life but been able to find a quality guy. I’ve owned a condo & strive to eventually own a home in a few years, are dating apps to blame behind being single or is there more to it (aka am I the issue)? I’ve been told I’m attractive by all kinds of people for a good chunk of my life but I’ve never been approached in person by a guy I’d like to date (getting checked out doesn’t count).
The only times guys I find attractive have acknowledged me were on dating apps, it’s just there’s times where maybe I feel burnt out & can’t be bothered to end up meeting that guy in person.

Or when I feel like I have *options*/ I’m in a mood where I just don’t want to put in the effort. And when the app outlook looks dismal at a given moment (like now), I consider deleting & reinstalling at a later time. I get bored after communicating too long etc, it may seem like self sabotage topped with my terrible anxiety but I’ve never felt SO unsure about something in my life & that *something* is dating. Unsure if my lack of libido/lack of interest in being sexual might play a part (no health issues). There’s always that voice in the back of my mind that makes me think the right guy will change all of that but who really knows. I’m worried I’ll be shriveled up & when I finally have that drive, it’ll be too late to find a match. I heard an influencer say the other day that there shouldn’t be pressure or a rush to date, it’s an opportunity that’ll always be available.

TL; DR: Is dating hard for most? And is my case bad luck or someone unsure of what she wants?

I know what Indians like. The first girl never had to change her eye colour but the second girl lightened her skin to be considered the epitome of beauty. The first girl gained so much popularity just because her skin tone is naturally fair and guys were comparing her to milk products 😹
I think the Indian beauty standards are toxic because most South Indian people grow up thinking they’re less attractive and many even start hating those from the northern states because it’s a lot more common for us to have at least beige/golden skin. It doesn’t help that most Bollywood actresses/actors who gain popularity among Indians are North Indian. Even South Indian cinema favours North Indian girls but South Indian guys can still become popular out there 💀 So, I’m not going to say it’s great even though it’s easier for me. However, Western standards are more brutal 💀 because it’s a lot less common to have blue/green eyes.