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I have know my ex best friend for 10 years. She then became really toxic and we have had several blowups at each other. After our last blowup we have not spoken to each other in 3 years. She tried to apologize but I'm over it. It's a routine and she never changes. Then she began acting like nothing happened and started to initiate casual conversations with me.

She started telling me how she was going to move next door to me soon and expected me to be happy. I was furious. I lost it on her and told her it was a terrible idea. We are not friends, won't be friends and I'm done with her toxic behavior. I told her I want no part of this friendship that doesn't work and is filled with drama 75% of the time. I told her I will not speak to her if she's here.

She then made me the problem and told me I'm insane for not wanting her to live there and the issue was because I can't let things go. She told me I have no right to control her and began manipulating the details of the argument again.

I don't think I can dictate where she lives. I just don't like the idea of not being able to get away from the drama.

Am I crazy? Am I in the wrong or is she just being her usual toxic self?

I Have moved on - just using this as an example to see if there’s anything I can learn for future dates.

On hinge

me “Thank you for a great evening and hope you get home safe. I enjoyed our drinks. Would you be up for meeting again?”

her “Hello (name)! Yeah got home safe thanks, had a lovely eve yeah meeting up again would be cool

Me “Glad you had a lovely eve and got home safe. Cool, I was thinking we could go to the Christmas Market. Might find a mulled wine instead of gin this time . I can do most evenings & weekend next week except Friday and Thursday. Or the week after, I’m free other than 7-10th when I’m away. Let me know what works best for you. Did you get your glasto tickets by the way?”

She didn’t respond. I left it 4-5 days. I had got her WhatsApp from the date but the last 2 digits were the wrong way around which I had figured out at this point so I messaged her on whatsapp.

me “Hey (name), it’s (name) from Hinge. Realised the last 2 digits of your number were the wrong way around. That’s why it didn’t send before. ”

her “loool oh god were they? How much wine did I have? Well done for figuring it out”

me “Are you sure you’re not an alcoholic?  Tbf, I lost count after the gin - apparently it’s a big thing at markets this year. Are you still keen on doing it again?  I can do Saturday or Wednesday.”