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The girl I met has a beautiful heart, cute smile and a sweet voice. When I saw her for the first time, I didn't get any feelings. She's just an other random girl for me. But once I got a chance to engage in a conversation with her when she was sitting all by her own, I started to like her. But she friend-zoned me. Then I started getting this really different feeling which I haven't experienced before. Like while thinking of her I get a hot sensation from deep down inside my chest (guys please don't make fun of me 😂. I literally have no words to describe that feeling). While receiving a text message from her, my heart beats in sync with the notification tone 😂. Once I asked status and she replied that she is currently single. Now coming to the point, I had this dream today dawn (12/12/2022) may be 6 to 6:30 am. Here goes my dream

I'm entering in a movie theater with my parents and my little brother. The lights are on, yet the movie is not started. There I saw my girl sitting alone, the row she's sitting had no people. On searching our seats, I saw her and she saw me. I waved my hand to say Hi 👋. She called me near her. After settling my family in their seats, I rushed to her. She pulled my hand and made sit next to her and hugged my hand and layed on my shoulder. Till that point she seems to be fine. Suddenly I heard her crying, looked her face. Her eyes were filled with tears, and at her lower voice she goes like : I can't wait anymore for you to propose, I love you form the deep down from my heart, but I won't beg you for love 😭😭😭...

I'm trying to console her by saying that stop crying baby, I too love you and so on... But she cried out a lot and hugged me tightly... Then I woke up. My confusions are

1. I know that she's currently single. Should I propose her? Express my feelings of love for her?

2. And if I did so, will that affect our friendship?

3. Is this all one of my wet dreams or something like that 😂😂?

I have been married to my wife for 3 years. Before we moved in after we got married, I helped her pay off her debt to zero. We moved in and for that first year of living together we struggled a bit financially but were very happy with our relationship. She earned more than I did so I struggled hard to match our expenses 50/50. All my money that year went on essentials because that was all I could afford.

A year and a half passed since we moved in together and we are now in July. I now earn more than her and we are at a good financial path. She has the habit of not sharing her finances even though I tried my best to establish open healthy communication. I would often find myself having to ask her repeatedly about it. On that same month of July I told her to spill the beans... How much does she really owe in credit debt. She said 17k on one card and 6k on the other. A little blown back from that response I ask her to please not use her cards anymore and we can focus on it together. The plan was to save as much as we can for 6 months and then pay it off in large chunks in the thousands. After that day I almost never saw her pull out any credit cards.

Fast forward to last night. We had our first argument ever. It was a healthy argument, and we had a lot of respect and love in the argument. The arument started when I realized that her father was giving her a 1000-dollar allowance to help pay off her cards. Which I wasn't aware of and personally against my morals and she knows that. Her parents work so hard for that money. I love the support they give to her but why? Then I asked her why. 8 minutes of deflecting and trying to understand she reveals he owes 25k on one card. JUST ONE. My jaw dropped. I was trying to figure out how she spent 7k on her card in 6 months on top of what she had on her checking account. She spent in total of 16k in six months on the information I have alone based on the one card and the checking account.

I really need some help with this.