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I just moved in with my fiancé and his grandma. I’ve only been here for 2 whole weeks and it already feels like my relationship is falling apart. We don’t spend any time together except when we go on walks (which isn’t everyday) & when we went to brunch one time. Other than that he’s either working or answering to his grandma’s beck and call.

We don’t sleep in the same bed, or room. I have a whole level of the house to myself. I’m lonely and honestly not working is bothering me. I’m job searching for every day because I’m use to working and contributing.

We have no personal space or time together. She calls him for almost everything (she can’t do much since she’s on oxygen). I get it and I understand but some stuff is honestly ridiculous. I’ve been trying to do my part. Keeping areas clean at least try because the min. I clean it gets messed up not too long after.

What do I do? I feel like him and I need to speak with her about it but I don’t want her feeling like we’re being rude when I’m the new comer and trying to change stuff.

When I’m on YouTube especially, I run into videos talking about how people should not be single because they will be lonely, depressed and that they will regret being life long singles and that the purpose of humanity is to marry and have kids.

They say women who are single are being lied to by feminism which is toxic because it tells women to focus on working hard and not on settling down and having a family.

Personally I feel like we all have a choice and also we all have different fates some of us were born to be single for the long haul, others were born to marry or having kids etc. Also, science has literally debunked the myth that single people are depressed and unhappy by proving that it is very possible to be happy and healthy as a single person.

Anyone can be happy it has nothing to do with your relationship status or if whether you have kids or not. Also if you listen to other people instead of doing what you want you’ll definitely be unhappy.

You will be happy though if you go after what you want in life and accept your fate with open arms and see the bright side of it be it single-hood, marriage or having kids. Because everything has a bright side in life, even though there are cons in every situation there are also pros in every situation.