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So he texts me midday saying that "I was thinking of stopping by and seeing you. But if you're seeing someone else, I'll skip".

My response was "what, why would you say that".

He responds back with I was "joking" & "when did you ever take me seriously" along with a bunch of smiley emojis.

I respond with "I told you early I don't sleep around / only been with 2 guys in my life"

And haven't heard anything since many hours later. The conversation was ongoing at the time - not much delay (a minute or two) while texting so he's purposely not responding.

As we only started dated I deleted our conversations as it's not like I'm losing much but didn't block as well if he tries to reach out to explain he can. Not like I'll have him back after this.

I see it as reflection - he was sleeping around & subconciously redirected it on me

I met a guy online who told me he stayed on dating sites for 3 years. He told me he never had sex with anyone except for one girl three years ago. He travelled all the way to my city for four hours just to meet me.

When I first met him, I did pull away, but then he tried to prove that not all men are the same. He didn't force me to have sex with him. But then he told me something that somehow scared me—he doesn't want to commit. I did not bother to think about it and just had a good time with him. We shared a lot of talks, fun, and walks. We were both happy and just sending out positive vibes until we had sex together.

After the two days we spent together, he said he had to leave me to visit his friend "girl" in another city, which is 30 minutes away. I was curious about it, but he said she is just a family friend, and they have been friends for many years and are very close. Her family is already his family. He stayed there for three days, and I did not bother to overthink it.

We still communicated together right after he left, and we have been calling and texting each other for three weeks now, getting to know each other better. He eventually told me that he wanted to get serious about me; he sent a lot of kiss and hug emoticons. We become more comfortable with each other.

Now, he told me he wants to drop by to see me in the city next week. I asked him, "Where are you going?" He said to his friend, "Girl," again for two days, but his ultimate goal is to meet me.

I felt uncomfortable and scared if he was telling the truth, and I somehow doubted that this girl could be his girlfriend or fling. I pulled away again from him, even if it did hurt me a lot, and said I needed space.

Now my question is, do I need advice on whether I shouldn't be jealous of this friend's "girl" OR should I be suspicious and cautious of this guy?

This is just a random question that popped into my mind. I usually do not wear makeup when I'm going on dates (went out with two guys; one became my boyfriend, but later broke up and the other guy and I did not work out) but it was because we went to places like ice cream shops and the beach which did not require a full face of makeup. From a guy's perspective, how would you feel if your date showed up without makeup on? Is it an important aspect of a first date?

I'm not dating anyone at the moment, but *if* I'm interested in someone in the future, I thought this might be helpful!

PS: For the ladies, with or without makeup, you're beautiful no matter what :)

Comment your thoughts down below!